Whats it mean when he said, tell me you love me?

[crazykay222]

Okay so this guy and I have gotten really close these last few months, he is married, and has a baby. I have slept with him ( I KNOW IT WAS WRONG) but he has left his wife and doesn't want to be with her. Him and I still talk almost everyday. And 3 days ago when we was talking he said " tell me you love me" I didn't because when I tell him that I want to really mean it. Right now I don't know. But why would he say that to me? He tells me he misses me and wishes he could come back and see me. And he knows I really miss him. He also wants to have sex with me without a condom, and come inside me? why would he want that? is he just being selfish or does he really care about me and maybe want something more? I'm confused...

[Anonymous]

Oh wow. Don't allow him to come inside you with no condom unless you are on birth control and he has been tested. He asked you to tell him you love him because he misses his wife. Not necessarily because he loves her or wants to be back with her but a man becomes accustomed to a few things in a marriage. He needed that reasssurance that he did the right thing. And you young lady are experiencing the reason why women should not mess with married men. His wife already knows his quirks and accepted them. YOU...are now stuck learning them.

[crazykay222]

Well I didn't tell him. Like I said when I do say it,i want to really mean it.. and right now yeah I love him as a friend, but I'm not sure about anything else. I know it was wrong to mess with him, and he didn't leave his wife because of me he left for whatever reasons. But thanks, for the answer I'm sure he misses his family, I know he misses his baby so much..

[Opinion Owner]

He left because of you. Men that have been married or are used to certain things don't leave without something/someon waiting for them.

[crazykay222]

Well I hope that he didn't leave just because of me. I'm sure he didn't. I know there was problems going on b4 him and I started talking. He's a really good guy.. and if he left because of me, then wouldn't he be here with me?! He's not even in the same state right now..

[chibi-nation]

No, don't do it. It's not love! He wouldn't be with another woman while being with you.

[crazykay222]

We really arnt together.. we are just close close friends right now. He has left his wife and he lives in a different state now. But I'm confused as to way he would say that to me?