Guys, Was he trying to tell me he loves me? I don’t have much experience. Help?

[Anonymous]

I was hugging a guy. I said I like hugs. He said it could be tighter, but he wasn’t complaining. I hugged him tighter and asked how it was. He said it was better. I could hear his heartbeat. It was beating fast in his chest. When we stopped hugging he said I can feel the love and it made me laugh. It was cute. He was standing there smiling. Was he trying to tell me he loves me without telling me? I mean we have been on 5 dates. Could he really already know? (Yes, I do have feelings for him.)

[bededazzle]

i think love usually takes a bit longer to occur, but i don’t know how he feels without him saying it. it sounds like he quite enjoys your company. assuming he wants to see you again, isn’t that alright for the time being?

[Danny_dan92]

Surprised you didn’t pull his pants down and suck his dick right there

[BarryLiverstone]

No he doesn’t love you. He felt good about the hug

[BarryLiverstone]

Did you ask him not to kiss you?

[Asker]

No. I’ve been waiting for him to kiss me though.

[BarryLiverstone]

But it’s been five dates. You could be kissing by now. Have you told him it’s ok to kiss you?

[Asker]

I also forgot to mention…the guy is tall. I’m 4’10”. He’s 5’11”. So he has to come down to my level I’m short.

[BarryLiverstone]

Eh that’s no big deal. I’m 6’6, used to a height dif. You are already hugging so a kiss would be easy

[BarryLiverstone]

But he’s gotta know you want to be kissed

[Asker]

I’ve been trying not to put pressure on him. I don’t want to freak him out. I’m also a shy person in general. I keep thinking if he felt like it he would. Could he possibly be scared? Lol.

[BarryLiverstone]

Tbh if he hasn’t had a lot of dating experience he could feel scared for several reasons. Its ok to be shy but it’s been 5 dates; don’t you feel more comfortable being with him and want a better connection by expressing yourself