What would you describe my body as? (Check profile photo)?

[147703]

Just curious as I'm meeting up with this guy I haven't met before, he's really into fitness, huge guy, and I've told him I'm insecure about meeting him because of my weight (I have this sickness that actually makes me gain weight, fun right :P), he keeps saying I have no reason to be worried and that he's a really easy going guy. I'm still nervous. So I'm just curious how you would classify my body? Overweight? Fat? Obese? I honestly have no idea, I've never had an issue with my weight before this.. Also, how much would you guess I weigh? Weird question I know, but I'm just looking for honest answers.

Thanks in advance!

Overweight

Fat

Thick

Curvy

Obese

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+1 y

Also, does anyone have an idea why a guy who is so conscious of his own body would be okay with mine?

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

clinically speaking, Obese is "fatter" than Overweight. It goes:

Slim - Average - Overweight - Obese - Extremely Obese

"Fat" is a layman's term. Overweight/Obese women use the term "Curvy" because they are ashamed of themselves and can't be truthful about their weight. Sophia Vergara is the true definition of "curvy."

"Thick" describes a muscular woman, not necessarily fat. Sort of like college gymnasts. Notice I said COLLEGE gymnasts, not those tiny high school olympians.

Some men find big women attractive which is why he may not care. I know a couple guys that only date overweight women. Yes, sometimes that will happen with fitness guys too. I heard one dude said he thought it was because he had a hard body so maybe he subconsciously likes a soft body against his. Know what I mean?

FYI, I consider you Obese. You do carry the weight relatively well though. Everything is proportional. I don't see any stretch marks or cottage cheese so that's a really good thing.

[croxy]

You're asking, so I hope it doesn't offend you, but in my case, this would easily be a dealbreaker, he said he was, so he probably is different about it though.

An advice would be, if you feel insecure about your body to him, act like your confident about it, while still being aware of the issue.

Your weight? I'm sorry, I don't know, it depends on height and all, and I have no experiences with fat womens weight.

[147703]

Thank you! No offence taken at all, like I said, I'm not normally anywhere close to this size so it's all kind of new to me too :p but I really appreciate your honesty! :) Thank you for your advice.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

you would be thick and look really good if you lost 10-20 lbs and toned up. right now you're chubby.

in my opinion you don't have a bad or unattractive body you probably look cute in the right clothes. you don't have the best body which im sure you know but its not bad at all, kind of cute. guys who like thick girls will like u, guys who like thin girls won't like you..but you're not huge or gross or anything

[Anonymous]

Dont worry about your weight too much. I think you are a little overweight due to not eating the right foods. Im sure if you would cut back on unhealthy food and do a little more exercise...you will be fine...
This guy likes you...so there is nothing to worry about.A fun and nice personally is what guys want...personality stays as the body can be changed.
:-)

[Anonymous]

Plenty of women are self conscious of their own bodies, but are still okay with their man's body, even if he is out of shape. It is the same for men. Most people are self conscious about their bodies. It doesn't stop them from loving someone else that doesn't have a perfect body.

[Anonymous]

You hold your weight well, I'd just say overweight. Your body is fine though, and I doubt most guys would find it a deal breaker. The deal breaker for any person would be if your face is ugly. However I am sure he already knows what your face looks like, so i say you're fine. No one cares about body. Only face.

[lericah]

He is self-conscious like most of us and in addition to that may be deprecating himself to make you feel comfortable with your body. He doesn't care but he know you are probably very self-conscious and your happiness is important to him

[Bullfish]

Opinions are different, don't take them too personally.If you fell fine with your body, nothing else is important.For me this is curvy a.k.a. perfect! ;)

[Lyssieaa]

I think if he really likes you, then who cares about your weight?
Guy's are douches when it comes to the way girl's looks. Don't sweat it, you look fine!

[Prof_Don]

I voted A. Not all very fit guys ONLY like very fit girls.

Men's tastes in female body is more various than the media likes you to know. Stop worrying.

[sovetskii13]

Overweight, but not obese. Using your height and weight will give you the option to find your BMI which will tell you which category you are in.

[UlsterScot]

You have good physical assets. Lose the carbs and soda pop to reveal the beauty beneath the (sorry) blubber.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I'd put you at > 200lbs. You are overweight. If he said not to worry, you shouldn't worry.

[THChowder]

You should've posted a frontal picture as well.

I'd say, fat/overweight.

[jamaall89]

You're overweight, but not enough that I would turn you down. It does look like you have a nice body.

[Anonymous]

You have a good figure though you are bit muscular and your weight I guess will be in range 165-170 lbs.. Don worry its the inner qualities that matters not the body weight or anything.. I wish you all the very best.

[Anonymous]

You have a Good Body Shape. Not Too Big , Not Too Small. You're just right 👌

[mario1321]

Your body is fine dont worry about it

[Anonymous]

Fat blubber of fat mess.

[marduk22]

fat / obese