Going on dates just for the food?

[last-rolo]

Girls, have you ever done this?

Guys, how would you feel if a girl did this to you?

I'm not gonna lie, I've done it before and I'll probably do it again. Just thought I'd see what you all think of it.

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+1 y

I don't do this much, only if a guy is really into me but me not so much but I agree to a date. Or if I know it's not going anywhere but I'll go on one last date because I like pizza. But it's still a proper date, but if there was no food I wouldn't go

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+1 y

I also just want to say I do like the guys. If I didn't like them I would go out with them at all. But If they said "wanna come over and watch a movie" I'd probably say no, if they said "wanna come over and watch a movie, I'm ording take-away" then yes.

[DanielSan]

oh so basically your just a hog?

it has nothing to do with liking the dinner in an off itself for the sheer joy of eating free with someone and not being alone that night your just such a greedy pizza stuffing pig that you take any chance you can to shove more in your mouth?

...or am I reading it wrong again?

like even if your mum had just made you dinner you would still rush over for his pizza...I am sure you require vast amounts of carbonated drinks also...

[last-rolo]

Actually I don't really like fizzy...

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

As long as you're up front and honest about it and I still like talking to you in general, ya I wouldn't mind. Otherwise I'd be pretty pissed and feel used. Wouldn't you? Kind of a bitch move to do such things to people without telling them the real reason. It's why I hate players.

[KarKingJack]

LOL, nice. That's only cool if you really need food though, not if you just feel like a fancy dinner, hahaha. Its like my friend told me, when we knew I was gonna be homeless, to f*** girls who work in grocery stores and bakeries, so they could sneak me food.

[Tamikaze]

Wow, no, I have never done that. Even when I was young and was not making much money, I would rather eat whatever I could find at home than go on a date with someone I had no interest in. Not only would it not be fun to hang out with someone I wouldn't enjoy a conversation with but the idea of giving false hope to a guy just to score some pizza, well not cool.

Not hating on you, but stop doing that. It is hurtful.

[Anonymous]

some times I go on a date with a guy just because he seems so into me, not that I'm into him much at all. Or some times I go on a date just because I'm bored and the guy is really asking.

[DanielSan]

I wouldn't mind.

#1. If I knew that was it.

#2. If you could have a decent conversation.

Like no one likes to get used but who says you can't just have a date with a nice girl and it be just about having diner and a talk. cough gotta practice for when I really like a girl somehow cough

[olive92]

I once dated this guy whose father owned an Italian restaurant and I got to say I miss family dinner at their house lol but I think I'm not so food obsessed that I would go out with a guy just or the food. If I don't want to date him I'd rather tell him than leading him on!

[XxSunshinexX]

I have never done it, I have always had an interest on the guys I date. I never go out with guys if I don't like them or have some kind of interest in who they are. I personally don't find it something nice to do to just go for the food, they taking you because they like you. Why take advantage? and give the wrong impression that you like them back?

[Anonymous]

I have to admit...this made me laugh abundantly. I have never done this and I don't think I ever could. You say you have done it before and will probably do it again...how many times would you say you have done this. The reason I ask is becuase you can quit possibility build a reputation for this, if you roam a particular circle or places, people etc. Also, what do you tell the guyh when he calls you for a second date? Do you just say "Oh yeah...I skipped lunch today, so dinner would be nice"?

[pawan_jasoria]

Lol, Good idea for save money, make fool of guys :D

[ihatework]

and you wonder why guys get discouraged, you like food more than them. :(

[phil2]

lol

[Thiezz]

Wow, you're a bitch.

Men, unite! No more paying for meals. Nothing but Dutch dates before sex! :p

[Tamikaze]

Hey, I get it, a girl going out with you for food when she is not in to you, not cool. But, really? If all you think dating is for is to score sex, well don't date. Just pick up on women as you can. No shame in that. Just don't date and pay for things to buy sex.

[Thiezz]

I'm not saying dating is to score/buy sex, I'm just saying that if women such as the question asker were common, it would not be a bad policy for a guy to expect some token of interest and/or commitment from a girl before investing money in her, to weed out the profiteers. Don't be mad at me, it is HER who is ruining it for the rest of you.

[carlstatlin]

User, c you and t, and worthless sponge are the first three things that came to mind.

[selfishstars]

Nah, I don't believe in using people.

[jarhead]

Intentionally leading people on is not cool.

[Anonymous]

I won't mind if we have sex in the end

[Anonymous]

you must be really poor...no money for pizza?!?

[last-rolo]

I'm a student, so yeah, very poor!