Do you put your boyfriend/girlfriend on diets?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend wants me on a diet and I don't want it. I make must of my food and bring bag lunch to work. I am 6'2" and 210 pounds, it says I am overweight, but I am not huge. I have a job where I am active all day. and if I am eating a lot its because I burn a lot. And there's nothing wrong with that. she wants me on a diet and I am happy the why I look.

[Cottoncandydreams]

Confront her. Your loved one(s) shouldn't be fixing something that ain't broken. Especially when it comes to eating/weight which is a sensitive thing. Try reasoning with her you will have an apple instead of cookies for dessert, but you are not having a salad for dinner.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is 6'5 and 180 lbs...so no, I don't put him on a diet. I tell him to eat more.

I am 5'4 and 110 lbs so he doesn't put me on a diet either. We do work out together though.

[Goran]

the most important thing is that you feel good about it.it is not bad thing for a girl to care,when she starts not to,then you have a problem.for start try to drink only water instead juice,and say " you se I am trying" :))

[Asker]

i drink a lot of water, also I work at water treatment plant. but I lknow what you mean, instead of cake have a apple.

[Goran]

yep,thats how I did it .Find something that suits you. If you're hungry, eat. But if you don't feel hunger ,dont eat,jst beacuse you don't know what else to do.litter more control and that all for start.cheers.

[Anonymous]

Imagine the sh*t that would fly if a guy told his girlfriend to go on a diet! LOL

If my girlfriend wanted to "put me on a diet", the door would be hitting her ass on the way out.

[Asker]

omg that's so funny

[Hannah591]

I think controlling what your partner does, in any aspect of their lives is wrong, so no I don't.

[blackkid2]

Partners are for "support" not "management". You need to remind her of this.

[Littletad]

Id show concern here and there, but I'd never "put" someone on a diet plan.

[Anonymous]

You should be happy about yourself, and don't change yourself for anybody, even your girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

It just must be that she's concerned about your health.