During the conversation she mentioned that she is afraid she might hurt me, she explained she might find someone else while I am with her. At that point I felt hurt and upset. I asked for the engagement ring back and told her that I do not want to be in a relationship if you are going to try to cheat on me. She cried the entire time, I told her I want to break up. It sounds to me like she wants to manipulate me or just cause I can't move in she will need to find someone else, sounds messed up...
She agreed but was hesitant and asked are you sure you want to do this, I told her to think about this deeply and we will discuss it later this week. At the moment I am waiting on her response, I do want to be with her but I did this to find out if she really wants me, also because of what she said. This is not the first time this has happened, similar scenarios happened before we were engaged.
I am not sure if I did the right thing or not, I would like to hear your opinions or what I should do... Thank you
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