My boyfriend doesn't spend money on me, instead wants me to do it.

Whenever we go out, whether it be movie, lunch or any other place, it is me who pays the bills or buys the tickets.1 out of 10 times he does it. he is in another city for studies and comes to our city sometimes.(his hometown and mine as well). So ours is a kind of long distance relationship. we... Show More


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  • That sounds like a total use of your love. (sorry about that)

    I don't know how is the relation, but you never mentioned anything about having fun with him, or enjoying something.

    Only money money money, first of all. You don't need to spend money AT ALL. There are plenty of ways to enjoy time without going to a movie, restaurant, or always to buy presents.

    I can't even believe that he enjoys getting money from you. Try to pass time with him without using money, like going to a park or doing some home activity.

    If he doesn't like it, he doesn't like you, but your money.