Awkward coincidence? Falling in love for a guy who's best friend I have slept with? Just found out today?

[girl1225]

Well to begin I had a one night stand with a guy around new years eve this year 2013/2014 and he was from out of town so he called up a friend to see if we could go to his friends place to have some fun... so we did... and it was nice and I didn't think about it any more

Than like most one night stands might end, he didn't want to contact me any more and I did not care for him he also lied to me he was in a relationship the entire time, he had cheated on his girlfriend with me without me knowing I was pissed and sad for his girlfriend but it wasn't my problem because I was single but he was not... so he had only himself to blame... so I moved on... in the mean time I went in and out if my old relationship and than have been single since May so... than just the other day or this weekend ( July 12 ) I met a guy down town who was really nice and we had so many things in common and talked and talked and the night ended us spending it together at his place which is in his parents home.. watching a movie and a little more. than we started talking more the next day and I find out who his ex girlfriend is. and it all starts making sense... and sure enough...

this amazing guy is the best friend of the guy I slept with in the end of December! he doesn't know I slept with his best friend and I didn't know until he told me he had moved out of his old apartment who was the same exact apartment we where in.
I Really like him and I don't want him to dislike me.. should I tell him or not? how will he react? what do you think I should do? Because I think he likes me 2 like big time?

[one_true_alpha]

Based on your reply to Panzer he really likes you if he already knew you slept with hi best friend. And there's not much to understant when emotions are involved, they can easily overwhelm you and make you do crazy things. From what he has done it is pretty evident that he likes you and wants to be with you. I hope all goes well :)

[girl1225]

Thank you so much. If I'm to be totally honest here the truth is that sexually he is of the scale so much better in bed that his friend! kind a amazing! I told him this is honesty and he just laughed and said that he would never have to worry about his friend again. So he kind of always has a big grin on his face when ever we are three together. : )

[one_true_alpha]

Aww I'm glad it all worked out and that you guys are happy, and thank you for MH! :D

[girl1225]

Yeah no problem and thanks a lot for your answer it I had been wondering about his feeling for a while!
: ) It is good to get answer to this things from a male perspective.

[523206720]

You just have to hope that the best friend doesn't tell or you can tell or not tell. In the end it is out of your hands.

[Panzer103]

No one wants to date a girl gus buddy banged. It always hangs over his head that his buddy saw and got all that he is with. A really shitty feeling.

[girl1225]

I totally understand how it must feel :( But it kind of gets more complicated. I kind of don't understand something. He confronted me about it and I told him how sorry I was and we talked about it, and he says to me he knew all along he had asked his friend about me the day after I slept with him and kind a started liking that day and had tried to talk to me since and it was he that came to me and wanted to get to know me? does that make any sense? I have meet his friend after this with him of course and yes it was kind of awkward but more for his friend that us. He also talked to his best friend and he couldn't care less because he is a big ladies man anyway. But Thanks a lot for your honest answer well I'm writing you back because I don't understand him?