The guy I like likes my sister... what should I do? I really really like him?

[Anonymous]

[NearlyNapping]

The fact that's she's your sister has little to do with it. Not much anyway. What's important is that he likes someone else. You simply have to accept that. Being your sister might make it harder to accept, but it doesn't change the fact that he likes someone else.

Sorry, but this is something 99% of people go through in their life. For many people it happens more than once. For now it's just not happening. You should just move on. If something changes in the future, then maybe make a go at it. But you can't make someone like you. You also shouldn't waste your time waiting on him when you should be spending that time looking for someone who likes you back.

Do NOT let this form a rift between you and your sister.

[Asker]

I really appreciate your advice! Thank you so much. I'm not going to waste my time anymore that's for sure ! Thank you so much :)

[NearlyNapping]

You're welcome.

Yea, use your time efficiently. There is some guy out there who wants more than anything for you to find him. So don't keep him waiting. :)

[aficionado]

If your sister likes him too, then you need to let him go. If not, you still have a chance.

[Asker]

Why should I let him go if my sister likes him as well?

[aficionado]

Because in that case, it becomes mutual between them but only one-sided between you and him.

[Asker]

So you don't think I should keep trying? Maybe he'll like me? Or nah?

[aficionado]

If they both like each other already and also know about it, then your chances are pretty slim.

[Suhmer]

Tell your sister you like him. Neither one of you should get involved with him. There will be other guys. It just causes for too messy a situation, and someone's feelings are bound to get hurt. Thats not fair on anyone involved, nip it in the bud now.

[CheerGirl38139]

sister threesome?

Just kidding. How does she feel about him?

[Anonymous]

Does your sister like him?

[Asker]

Yeah she does :(

[Opinion Owner]

:/ hope that things don't end well between them I guess... it's hard because they both like each other.

[Asker]

It hurts cause everyone always likes her more :( I'm not as attractive as her ! I'm so self conscious

[Opinion Owner]

Tell yourself you're gay until you find someone else. Stop comparing yourself to your sister, it is the worst thing you can do.

[Asker]

I know that but if you were in my shoes and always being compared to her 24/7 you'd know how it feels

[Opinion Owner]

Do you live with her still? Can you move out and live alone? Any way to remove yourself from her.

[Asker]

I live with her and work at the same place as her. That's how we met the guy. I love her tho so much but I'm so sad that I get compared to her

[Opinion Owner]

So it's a love hate thing. If you love her, let her have the guy.

[Anonymous]

Have a threesome, problem solved.