In Dating You Must "Fail Your Way to Success"

nickbrick

One day my good friend came up to me he said "How do I get (insert name) to like me, "I just mess everything up."

In Dating You Must


I don't understand why we as a society want to give love so much without loving ourselves first. If none of us have confidence then we will never be able to get the love of our life. Secondly, "if you believe that you are dumb then you are dumb." This is kind of like you can never succeed until you believe you can. In order to believe you can succeed you have to get rid of the notion of "can't."


Can't is a word that pops up in everyones mind occasionally... "I can't win the game" "I can't pass the exam" "I can't get the girl" I'm not saying get rid of it because we need to realize that in order to succeed it is going to be a challenge. Instead of "can't" insert "will be able to." This is because there is the possibility you will fail. Failure isn't a bad thing. If looked at in the right frame set then it can be a good thing.


We can learn from our mistakes when we fail


We can know what to do better next time


Life is a game of failures and successes. In order to succeed we must fail.


In Dating You Must "Fail Your Way to Success"




This goes goes back to my main story "I just mess everything up" Of course you do...everyone does...or at least everyone messes up a little. Eventually you will succeed and then fail again.


Think of this as a video game. There is this very hard level you have to pass. At first you get through 25% of the level and you fail. Then on the second time you get through 45%. 3rd time --> 60% 4th time --> 80% and then by the 5th time you finish the level.


Life is like a game. You win some and you lose some. But always remember. If you don't try then you automatically won't succeed. If you don't try that really hard level then you will never beat the final boss.


So when it comes to dating remember: you will fail, you will get rejected, you will break up.


Eventually though you will succeed. You will find that special person, but you have to understand that you need to fail in order to succeed. Only then will you ever find that special person. And Remember you are awesome


Stay Positive,


NickBrick

In Dating You Must "Fail Your Way to Success"
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