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Girls, when a guy first approaches you and asks you out, what do you prefer?

Should he just ask if you want to go out with him? Or, should he suggest a specific date (Dinner, Movie, Something else)?

Please vote in the poll.

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Guys, For a First Date, do you ask her if she wants to go out with you or ask her about a specific date?

Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.

Ladies, what would your reaction and thoughts be if your boyfriend wore this shirt on the day of Valentine?

Guys, would you think to wear this on Valentine's if you had or have a girl to express further how much you’re in love with her in the effect by the shirt shows?

Mention: I have a creative idea about this concept of this shirt if I were to have a valentine and I had a woman who I was with for, let’s say, about 3-4 years or so to wear this to know our relationship is actually secure and we are only for each other, that our love is infinitely solid, that I would want to express this to her on this special day, who I love as a part of my own creative approach. That’s me since I’m an old-school kind of guy who prefers the romantic and lovely ways of knowing smooth ways in making a woman feel embraced, appreciated, and loved in my own way. But anyway, the concept I have would be my lady’s face on the shirt with cute details on it with the beating heart in a way I’d still think about how to design how I’d like.

Of course it depends on the woman since every woman is different but I’m sure some would appreciate and admire that by their man and some don’t.