Search Results: ex really upsetting me

2 mo

How can I stand up for myself at an autistic social group with my ex there?

I’m attending an Autistic social group in a few nights’ time. There will be lots of people who matter to me attending. One who is a man who tried to use me for attention and freebies, with whom I cut contact last month,...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

2 mo

Why is my ex crying over staying friends after he dumped me?

I've only been dating this guy named Jack for 4-5 months. He suddenly asked to break up today. I felt like it was rude for him to break up with me over text. So I told him to grow some balls and do it in-person. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

3 mo

Was I in the wrong for telling this girl who wanted to date me that I didn't even wanna be friends?

This was when I was in highschool. We were both 17. This one girl really wanted to hangout with me, so we just walked around the school, and talked. Her and her ex weren't on good terms. He was in one of our classes. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this a toxic way to get back at my ex?

Me and ex have been on and off for 3 years. Safe to say he let me down massively and I was stupid enough to let him back in time after time. He never respected me and just wanted me for sex but then when we'd break up he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?

When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to deal with my fiancé getting upset?

my fiancé has anger issues. he gets angry so easily and it really hurts my head. I think I'm just not used to conflict. My ex and I never fought. Have y'all ever dealt with this? What do you do?

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Am I a bad person if I am glad that my now ex-wife had a miscarriage (we were still married when she lost the "baby")?

After we had been married for a few months, my wife at the time (now ex-wife) stopped taking her birth control pills completely without my knowledge, and naturally, she ended up becoming pregnant soon after. I do not know...

deaddude7734

Xper 1 Age: 50

Would like advice on the matter. (my age: 29)?

I’ve been thinking about my ex a lot lately. Honestly, I think about her every single day. She broke up with me back in September because she wanted to figure out her life and career, and I respected that. We ended on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My closest guy friend claims he likes me but forgets to answer my texts consistently. What's his deal?

He and I have been friends for years now, and to be completely honest there have been times where it started feeling like it was/could be more than that but neither of us ever acted on it. Recently, I've been making it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is something you did to yourself that still hurts?

I found a song that really resonated with me, so I wrote my own lyrics about my breakup using the songs words/melody. Some parts said "reading about it turning the pages and pages allowing myself to fade in the story...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I tell him?

I broke up with my ex a month or so ago and immediately regretted it. I was going through a lot of (unrelated) personal stuff at the time and was overwhelmed and dumped him. I realized my mistake and wanted to get back...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Should I get back with my ex?

This guy and I were friends last year and obviously liked each other for a while. We were talking for about 3 months and dating for about 5 months. This summer was very hard on me for many reasons. I was very busy, I had...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Girl's Behavior

You ever stopped trusting someone even after you been with them for a long time?

my ex and I were together for a long time , we started off as friends’ and then lovers and we married and had children , Her and I had a lot of ups and downs through the years , but we managed to stay together for as long...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Partner hid me from his ex and now wants to marry me?

My partner and I have argued about commitment issues a lot. He’s never wanted marriage because he has more wealth than me. He’s always wanted children. I recently chose him over the idea of marriage but intuition still...

Skyla508

Xper 1 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

My ex was allowed to be insecure, but I can't. Did anyone have the same issue?

I had an ex who was super insecure and would always assume I was cheating, but I wasn't and was mad loyal. She was allowed to be a screw-up, but whenever I was a little! Just a little bit insecure, she would get angry and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Did we get shafted?

So recently at work my assistant manager got demoted from her position because she was basically being lazy and not doing any work. She would often walk out mid shift and be gone for an hour or more or less depending...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I over react?

So I had this friends with benefits. We were good. No strings attached. I got it. He’s text me every day with stupid memes or to check up on me etc. if he didn’t message me I didn’t reach out to him. We got close, at...

Anonymous

(30-35)