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Am I wrong for refusing to let a coworker use my personal iPad?
So, the traffic when I head to work is pretty bad, so I always leave extra early, just in case. There's a nice little cafe next to work so I grab a coffee then sit at work either surfing the net or reading books on my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I have told my ex this?
When I last spoke to my ex she was really rude. She was horrible to me. I was just there taking the shots and saying sorry and I’ll do xyz to make her happy as I didn’t want her to leave. When I look at the things I...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I feel like I belong when I’m more intense than my friends?
I love my friends, but I have difficulty relating to some of them. I am very intelligent and intense and most of them are more laidback and casual. I feel for everything except casual catch ups, while I can trust them...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 How do I deal with a corrupt, selfish team lead without losing my job?
My team representative is a corrupted person. He is helping the TL and the zonal manager along with the deputy manager to cut cost by reducing resources in the team and causing more and more stress on the existing...
sadrose
Xper 3 Age: 37 Is my sister-in-law being selfish about inheriting my in-laws’ house?
My husbands grandparents recently passed, leaving us with there house. There house is lovely but very outdated and needs a lot of work. My husbands parents live 2 doors down. They have a beautiful 4 bed house with a...
Anonymous
(25-29) As Christianity suggests, is loving everyone a sustainable lifestyle? Can you always forgive and have no hatred?
Christianity and its love-centered worldview really interest me. However, when someone is cruel to me I often cannot be forgiving. It feels like being naive and I want to respond in kind. Are Christians able to overcome...
Nihilist__
Xper 4 Age: 22 Is it wrong to cut people off after they’re brutally honest with you?
I've hand of lot of instances like this happen in my life and I wonder if they thought that I was nice enough to let it slide. Examples Friend told me she hated when I acted like a good person, wore weird clothes and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I always feel left out and invisible in every social group?
I always end up being left out in every environment. I can’t seem to speak up when I’m around people. Everywhere I go, everyone is in a group, talking and laughing, while I don’t feel like I belong anywhere. I don’t talk,...
sonaaa
Xper 1 Age: 20 Do we really love people for who they are, or do we love the way they make us feel about ourselves?
Sometimes I wonder if what we call love is actually tied to the validation, comfort, attention, or happiness we receive from someone…if that's true, isn't that a little selfish? Loving someone should be about appreciating...
ElenaSeluna
Xper 6 Age: 31 Is it normal for my brother’s fiancée to attack me when she drinks?
drove 3.5hrs to go see my brother for my birthday. Apparantly I already pissed them off by not knowing exactly which day I was going to drive up. They think since im self employed I can just do whatever... not how it...
red324
Guru Age: 37 What should I do about my boyfriend who yells at me for no reason?
What should I do about my boyfriend out of nowhere yells at me and calls me selfish and childish for no reason because I don’t offer to pay or offer his food he said I need to have more common sense and manners and he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do cat and dog pets reduce dementia risk but birds and fish don’t?
The data says that in independent older adults, owning a dog or cat might reduce the risk of getting or dying from dementia just as much as living with a human family member, but this dementia reduction did not apply to...
How can I get my husband to respect and support me before baby arrives?
As pissed off as I am with my husband right now, I know people online love to jump straight to “leave him” whenever couples argue, but relationships are never that black and white. We’ve been together years, married, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is lasting love, loyalty, and real happiness still possible today?
The things that made me happy in life have all turned to shit , Everything I worked hard for , just seems like I have to piss it all away. This country is a disaster, with the cost of things rising and the job market...
Moms, how did your body and self-image change after giving birth?
Im 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby. One part of me is really excited and the other is extremely nervous and scared. I know the realities of birth and I've heard all the horror stories. I keep thinking "I can't...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 How do I handle family pressure to remarry when I’m done with romance?
I'm not getting married again or dealing with anymore romantic relationships and I have told my family this... All my sisters are married.. but it's a no.. I want to focus on my careers , traveling, and finish raising my...
Anonymous
(36-45) Don't you agree it is weird people think they are unselfish and a good person, just because they have a relationship or a kid?
Someone deciding to not be a in a relationship or not have a kid, doesn't dictate their character. Doesn't make them a bad person or selfish. That is just their decision.
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I tell him my Tinder check may have caused his breakup?
I initially met this bloke at a gig. We went on a couple of dates before communication on his end dried up. He just didn't seem that interested in me and though I liked him, I let him go. I tried to see other people. But...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you think of my personal interpretation of Deuteronomy 27?
Deuteronomy 27 1 - Judge people by their ideas, not their appearance. 2 - Do not badmouth your family because it ruins your own reputation as well. 3 - Respect the happiness of others, or you will be chosen for...
Why do women worship ambiguity so much while dating?
and even become extremely defensive when that ambiguity is taken away from them? it seems like women never want to date in clear and linear scenes. they instead want enough space to send mix signals or have access to...
Filthy_Immigrant
Yoda Age: 39 