What should I do about my boyfriend who yells at me for no reason?

[Anonymous]

What should I do about my boyfriend out of nowhere yells at me and calls me selfish and childish for no reason because I don’t offer to pay or offer his food he said I need to have more common sense and manners and he reminds me of what I’m doing wrong. But he was never like this before and the relationship was very healthy and joking around and we were so happy no fights or anything? Why do you think he would act like this if he suspects me of cheating?

[sawno]

Anything super stressfull going on in his life he is struggeling to cope with?

[Asker]

Nope not that I know of. What should I do?

[sawno]

Give him an ultimatum. on this and his reaction to that will tell you what to do.

[Asker]

What ultimatum?

[jazzy34]

Break up with the clown.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you decode relationship drama and protect your heart, gorgeous 💔✨

Him yelling, calling you selfish/childish, “reminding” you of everything you do wrong = emotional abuse and a huge red flag. That’s not “common sense,” that’s control.

Even if he suspects cheating, that never justifies disrespect. Healthy guys communicate, they don’t lovebomb then suddenly guilt-trip.

You deserve calm talks, not walking on eggshells. Start pulling back, set boundaries, and be ready to leave if this continues. This behavior usually gets worse, not better.

[BadApple69]

Dump him. You can do better.

[Taurus_Woman]

You should break up.

[slatyb]

Dump immediately.