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Former colleague asks if I'll be "the star" at his wedding?
Where I come from the bride is always the star of her own wedding. However for some reason the groom -- a former colleague -- announced to me that he's getting married and is FURIOUS about a bunch of things his mil-to-be...
Can I get an animation job without networking or industry connections?
I noticed that my professor liking posts of his ex student girl on instagram. I clicked that she working b the same company he did in past and understood he helped her. She really beatiful not gonna lie. But then I tried...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I always feel left out and invisible in every social group?
I always end up being left out in every environment. I can’t seem to speak up when I’m around people. Everywhere I go, everyone is in a group, talking and laughing, while I don’t feel like I belong anywhere. I don’t talk,...
sonaaa
Xper 1 Age: 20 Friendship not reciprocated, is it me?
Quick facts about me... Currently in 18 year toxic relationship, turned 40 this year, male, never had real friends all my life due to shyness and anxiety. I feel I jumped into my relationship to fast for the sake of...
Gabeinsf781
Xper 2 Age: 38 How is an attractive shy guy meant to respond to women who want me to approach?
My last question was meant to ask this. I am abnormal, though evidently in a blessed + cursed way. I attract women who think I am attractive, and who I find to be very attractive; but I have zero ability to approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was trashing birthday gifts from my ex and ex friend reasonable?
Long story short: I ripped up a picture album of myself, threw away a ring, and stuck a book in a suitcase that I probably won't open again for a few months. Backstory: So one friendship ended last year, but she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Women 40+, what was your real “welcome to your 40s” moment in life?
Fore me it was definitely my first mammogram. I dreaded turning 40. For years I'd joked about it, complained about it, and generally treated it like some giant cliff at the end of youth. Then my 40th birthday arrived...
AliceGregory
Xper 7 Age: 42 Tubes tied at 28 how to convince doctor?
I've struggled majority of my teenage years and young adult life with severe body dysmorphia... as a person who is actually unattractive! I never had a first kiss, been asked out, hit romantic milestones... no steak and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal at 24 to be single with no dating experience yet?
Hello, I just turned 24 and have never been in a relationship or a sexual encounter. i’m not someone that guys come up to and compliment or ask out. Which is pretty obvious due to the fact that I’ve never had a boyfriend....
Anonymous
(18-24) 🕳️ GAME: WHAT I DO ≠ WHY I DO IT 🕳️?
🧠 PLAY ALONG: GUESS THE REAL REASON 🧠 Here is the game: I will share 3 things everyone clearly sees me do. ✅ 2 of these: You think I do it for YOU / For others but actually, I do it 100% FOR MYSELF. (It is...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do Americans say “can I have” instead of “please may I have” and rarely say thank you?
I've been America 4 times and travelled mainly places such as new york , florida Orlando, Boston, north conway, cape cod, bar harbor. One thing I've found really strange is when you guys order food you'll say "can I...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I explain to a guy why I wanna cut him off?
Story cut short, we are in situationship for nearly 3yrs (yeah IM DUMB, I KNOW), then as we graduated our uni, i decided to just ask him what are we and he do admit we are more than a friend, but also a friend. That’s...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can I cope with the deep hatred I feel toward my family?
I don't know why I'm writing this here, but since I have no friends, I feel like I need to share my pain somewhere. My home feels like a prison. Since childhood, all I've known is pressure and control. I have two older...
sonaaa
Xper 1 Age: 20 Do famous people get a free pass to dress badly in fancy places?
For instance lets say a famous person (movie star, musician, singer) visit a fancy chic restaurant, but the famous person has some holes in his t shirt, a tiny hole but it is noticeable and still he can get inside. A...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How can I get my husband to respect and support me before baby arrives?
As pissed off as I am with my husband right now, I know people online love to jump straight to “leave him” whenever couples argue, but relationships are never that black and white. We’ve been together years, married, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 When you go shopping, do you prefer when they check on you, or would you rather shop on your own and ask for help only if you need it?
Personally, I like to shop by myself and ask for help only when I need it. Yesterday, I had an awkward moment with a nice department store employee that made me think about this…I avoided eye contact with him at first,...
ElenaSeluna
Xper 6 Age: 31 Crush ghosted a piano lesson then came back: is he just flaky or not interested?
I'll try keep short. But I've been teaching a guy piano. He is 21 I'm 26. He shows interest in me and he's been asking me more about myself and remembers details like the fact I'm looking for a car etc. he's asked about...
Lalalove11
Xper 6 Age: 26 Is my sister wrong for not inviting us to my brother‑in‑law’s birthday gathering?
Today is my brother in law`s birthday. Last Sunday when my sister stopped by the house to visit us, she received a phone call from my brother in law daughter (my brother in law has kids from his first marriage and they...
Anonymous
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