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Tubes tied at 28 how to convince doctor?

I've struggled majority of my teenage years and young adult life with severe body dysmorphia... as a person who is actually unattractive! I never had a first kiss, been asked out, hit romantic milestones... no steak and wine.. I grew up feeling invisible and inferior.. I had a mother who I felt didn't like me growing up and I always thought it was because of how I looked.. I wasn't as attractive as her and people often treated me differently.. I did get compliments from older people at church.. but my mom telling me all her love stories and my dad singing to my mom as she came down the isle and he couldn't finish because he was crying.. I thought that was special...

I'm 28 and I'm afraid to be a mother because I'm not happy with myself and how I look.. I always wanted cosmetic surgery and lustful attention from men.. I know a couple people said that I look like I would be a baby mama

Or my sister said she would help raise my daughter if the man didn't stay and that scared me!

So I really want to get my tubes tied and avoid pregnancy.. I'll think about adoption.. it's just amazing how negative experiences can shape your life.. I don't want my daughter to be anything like me.

Tubes tied at 28 how to convince doctor?
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