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Search Results: asking for a first date
First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Is his interest fading after a great first date, or am I overthinking it?
Met a guy on Hinge, he took his time getting to know me before asking for my number/date. We finally went out last weekend and the first date lasted 7 hours. Since then we still text every day, he asks questions, sends...
Anonymous
(25-29) I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?
In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 If someone new shows you more effort than someone you’ve known for years… who do you choose?
@LaFemmeFatale_1 asked me something about my love life earlier… and it actually stuck with me and made me think… I’ve known someone for a long time. He’s intelligent, funny, has depth… but opening up has always been a...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 
Can someone actually steal your Wikipedia or online identity like this?
Like so there’s this rapper guy i wanted to be his girlfriend but it didn’t work out he said yes like 3 times he asked me on a date but I was to afraid to travel to him. And etc so he finally rejects me he makes a for fun...
MaryJne
Xper 6 Age: 32 Is he actually ghosting me or just going through something?
It’s gonna be a bit long i’ve been dating this man since November. We went through “low” phases twice, once where i didn’t know the reason second time when he was moving. Everything has been good other than that. We are...
Anonymous
(18-24) My 2nd Date - Update
2nd Date Update: The Cake, The German "Freak," and some Dark Humour... Warning: Some dark, sensitive historical jokes ahead. We both have a very dark sense of humor, so hope it won’t offend anyone here! So we had our...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was asking if she dyes her eyebrows on the first date really that rude?
We had been texting and talking every day for a month, there was really good chemistry between us and finally we met. Everything was great. Her hair color and eyebrow color were noticeably different, and I asked, ‘If you...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is he keeping up with me?
Hooked up with this man out of state in September of last year while I was out there on vacation. We had prior dealings before that, but that was my first time ever meeting him. He took me to this restaurant, spent a bag...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you date a bartender? Why or why not?
I was telling my very sweet bartender friend (M30) that it's high time he find himself a nice young lady. (He's SUPER handsome with a heart of gold, a good head on his shoulders and a great sense of humor. So why tf is he...
Was I in the wrong for telling this girl who wanted to date me that I didn't even wanna be friends?
This was when I was in highschool. We were both 17. This one girl really wanted to hangout with me, so we just walked around the school, and talked. Her and her ex weren't on good terms. He was in one of our classes. We...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do some people keep asking when am I going to get a man or start dating again?
Okay so I just turned 36 almost three months ago and I haven’t dated since I was like 21/22 years old back in 2011. The only relationship I’ve had was with a guy that I went to school with. We’ve known each other since we...
MizzArtFreak89
Xper 5 Age: 36 Does my boyfriend not trust me anymore around his friends?
I met my boyfriends friends a few months ago after them insisting on meeting me and they basically only spoke to him when he introduced me to them, barely said a few words to me. They are all also roommates and after...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I stop talking to a guy if he has a toxic ex?
I’ve been talking to this guy for like a month and we went out on a date. And I had a really good time but then at night his ex girlfriend made an account and wrote my name in the bio saying that this boy I went on a date...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is he still into me help😬?
Ok so I went on a second date with this guy. He always texts me everyday and asks me questions about my day etc. he was super nervous the first date. The second date he didn’t seem as nervous which makes sense. We had a...
ivydavis
Xper 5 Age: 23 Do you think its transphobic if someone is not attracted to trans men/women?
I am just asking this question because first off, I am straight and not into women what so ever. Secondly, in high school, I had a trans women write me a note saying he was interested in me and to be fair, I wasn't...
Razberry_pumpkin
Xper 4 Age: 22 Guys, You're out on a date... do you focus on enjoying the date or do you keep trying to chip away at the person to find their flaws?
I was on a date (hold the applause) and the guy kept asking questions as if it were a job interview, till finally I chuckled and asked, "Did you find it yet?" He asked, "Found what?" And I said, "The flaw you've...
He hopes we can?
Why would a guy say he “hopes we can kick it again after our first date”.. instead of just asking me or planning something?
Anonymous
(25-29) If a guy wants marry you and you don’t like him back, does that mean he’s love of your life and soulmate, the one?
I’m asking as I’m almost 30 and never met a guy that I love that loves me back. I never had a serious relationship. I crush on guys and they show interest back but never serious like meeting family or living together , no...
Anonymous
(25-29) 