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Search Results: confidence or insecurity
Why do some people act tough in groups but insecure when alone?
I've noticed that this behaviour often comes across as arrogance, but I wonder whether there is a psychological explanation for why some people act this way. It seems to involve a false sense of confidence, a desire to...
srazo
Xper 3 Age: 24 What actually helped you build confidence when you felt unattractive?
I have always struggled with self doubt and insecurities even though there were many girls interested in me. Couple of times i run into a guys who told me i am handsome. But i have always struggled around girls i like and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is it that when people think of 'Turkish men,' the first things that come to mind are jealousy, restriction, and constant pressure?
I’ve noticed a huge contrast since being in Europe. While many European men seem to take pride in a woman’s independence and confidence, a lot of Turkish men act like they only feel 'manly' when they are policing what a...
Girl29428383386
Xper 2 Age: 20 How can I get over my fear of dating?
I'm 24, f & never had a boyfriend/ went on a date with a guy. I grew up overweight and got bodyshamed since the age of 10/11. My self confidence is still very low bc of that. When I was 19, I lost a lot of weight &...
Lxcylxcy
Xper 4 Age: 25 5 Things Guys Should Never Do
Just want to share some crucial things in this Take that I think all guys should understand and take heed to. There is so much in life that men are not being taught about people and the world because people are so busy...
"No one ever notices when you're being provoked, just when you retaliate." Why is this so true?
Is it the social hierarchy/popularity game (which grown adults several years out of high school are entirely too old for, by the way), or what? Why is it that everyone seems to be cool as a cucumber with some asswipe...
Anonymous
(30-35) Women, here are red flags in a man from a mans point of view
Trigger Warning: If you've had a bad relationship before that was so bad it caused PTSD than perhaps you shouldn't read this and should just turn around now. I give you permission to pretend you read it and leave a...
NathanOlipop
Xper 2 Age: 36 Are men more relatable to insecurity than women?
Think about it. If a woman is called ugly, her feelings get hurt, just like men get their feelings hurt when they are trash talked. Women consistantly focus on how they look, how they dress, smell and so on. They were...
Luopio27
Guru Age: 41 Is it acceptable for men to display his emotions around women?
I was having a debate yesterday with my girlfriend of two months while we were in the car about whether men should show their emotions to their partners. I told her that she’d never see me cry on her shoulder, but she...
JamieRobinson1994
Xper 6 Age: 31 Have you read “The woman in me” by Brittney Spears? 😮?
I did last night and am just floored… I read Jeanette Mccurdy’s “I’m glad my mom died” last year. These two real life memoirs are of abuse and struggle by family and society. They are Horrific and deeply touching. But to...
Charliefretz329
Guru Age: 43 How of you deal with a work colleague who means well but can be very annoying?
I got a work colleague like this. He’s a real nice guy and fairly intelligent. I also work in a support capacity for a larger team when it comes to technical issues and questions. Anyway literally every time he asks me...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is shyness a sign of emotional weakness?
I’ve been told that women are attracted to emotional strength a man such as confidence, charm, charisma, ambition etc and women are turned off by emotional weakness such as insecurity, neediness, laziness, bad manners etc...
JamieRobinson1994
Xper 6 Age: 31 Could I be overthinking this?
I have a younger sister. We have always been close but it has always been this feeling deep in my spirit that she doesn’t really want to see me progress in life because she wants to be the one to do everything first....
Egyptiannn
Xper 4 Age: 30 What are your insecurities?
I was born with birthmarks which are not genetic, but instead developed in pregnancy and not inheritable , my mother was in stress and something got messed up during pregnancy. So, my future children, won’t have it, but I...
Coworker of mine is getting bullied at work again. I stood up for him. But I hate seeing him get treated like this?
So about my colleague: Married guy in his 50s with two kids. Super nice guy. But that unfortunately some of that is rooted insecurity (I am recovering nice guy myself so I know that behavior). Very smart but overthinks...
Anonymous
(36-45) We almost kissed. Did he loose his confidence, or get turned off?
We hugged passionately. We rubbed each other's back. We nuzzled cheeks, and switched to the other cheek & nuzzled that one. He kissed my cheek. He let out little passionate moans. (I was silent, soaking the moment in). He...
SnooPeppersLivia1
Xper 4 Age: 37 Why do I feel high and mighty and that I’m better than people many times?
I didn’t use to feel this way. Actually I always put myself down to make others feel better. Do you think I’m compensating for my insecurities? I used to be bullied a lot. Do you think this is confidence? I just like to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do pretty people not feel pretty but average to ugly people have the biggest self esteem?
I've noticed this and I'm a good example, I know I'm not all that but I feel like a damn king bruh 😂 Then I see women that look like angels in human form being insecure and full low self esteem, what is this...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is the word I'm looking for?
I can't find the word for what I am trying to describe. So I just want to tell my story, and have some help looking for the word, so I can articulate myself more accurately. I'm a hairdresser. I specialize in women's...
Nakoma
Xper 5 Age: 38 Why would he project his insecurities onto me?
We've been dating for as long as 9 months. He is very handsome but seems to have some issues about himself. The first few months we were together, . Wasn't the best but didn't involve him being insecure. He was really...
Anonymous
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