Search Results: getting over an ex relationship

My Ex Reached Out After Years of No Contact, What Was the Point?

A few years ago he and I broke up because our relationship started to go down the drain due to him not filling out any job applications while being unemployed. I never really cared about the money, but I watched how his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How fast do you leave your "friends" alone?

I had 2 close friends in hs. The other classmates were more casual FB friends. My mom liked one because she had the same faith as us (Tia) and my mom hated the other since we went to a football game and she paid $9 for a...

Wuai201

Xper 6 Age: 29

Can you be in love with 2 people at once?

I think I'm still in love with my ex although I also love the new guy I am dating. I just texted him that I missed him and he texted me back that he missed me as well. I'm not a cheater (at least not physically) but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Am I a terrible person for disliking people who get clingy over text and small talk?

I have always been an introvert and I don't talk much. However, I can text pretty well. Now, the issue is whenever I'm talking to someone I do not know well, often it leads to them getting clingy. I only expect casual...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is my ex trying to get a reaction out of me?

My ex lost feelings for me and dumped me to date another chick. It's been 8 months since they've been together. They have been traveling, going on dates, close to getting engaged and im sure they are going to pop out with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you deal with retroactive jealousy?

Retroactive jealousy is when the current partner is feeling threatened or jealous over the partner’s past exes/relationships. I personally feel threatened by my bf’s most recent ex because she’s still in the picture (they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do people think I’m stupid for being jealous of short women?

I’m a very tall woman (6’4”) and people say stupid shit towards me like, “You’ll never get a man with that height.” “men like short women” or “petite and average height women is what men want” “men love long legs”...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

How long did it take to unpack the stuff from your ex's house after a breakup?

After a week and 3 days I finally was able to unpack my stuff the stuff I brought home from my ex's. It's been a rough breakup. I've not ever experienced any break up this hard. After sobbing in the floor and one moment...

Lilbit84

Xper 3 Age: 42

Friend and I made out under the influence of alchol, I dont know what to do?

Me and my friend have been hanging for a week. He is a "friends" ex (was in quotations cause we aren't literally friends friends but we were close at one point), We got along way too well and way too fast. we initially...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, Why have all of my girlfriends either cheated on me or dumped me for another guy?

Maybe it’s just bad luck, or something about the women I’ve met. I still don’t believe that all women are this way, but in my 44 years of life, I’ve had at least 20 relationships, and every one of them have ended either...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why could my ex be lying about me?

So I ended all communication with my ex 2 days ago because I found out he had stopped talking to me after talking to each other almost daily for 2 years and ghosted me because he met someone he's been getting to know for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating a Younger Guy: How Can I Overcome Body Insecurity and Fear of Intimacy?

I’m a 39-year-old single mom who recently started dating a guy who's 14 years younger than me. Initially, I was drawn to him mostly because of his physical attractiveness, but as we spent more time together, I developed...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Getting over a toxic relationship you didn’t want to leave?

I finally broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months after months of what I’d now actually accept was emotional abuse. My boyfriend even if he doesn’t want to accept it, manipulated me, disrespected and didn’t value me, tried...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Is it weird to be in your late 30s and still hung up on your ex from years ago?

I know for some people moving on takes time but after a certain couple of years, shouldn’t you at least make an attempt to actually let go? Especially if your ex is already happily in a new relationship and have been for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know for some people moving on takes time but after a certain couple of years, shouldn’t you at least make an attempt to actually let go? Especially if your ex is already happily in

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Is it normal that everything is a bit awkward when you first start dating a new person?

I am 29. Have been in a relationship for 9 years from 17-26. Now I have been 3 years not dating and just enjoying my time alone and as single. Recently I started looking again and was very lucky to have found a woman...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, is it wrong to pity someone who's getting over a breakup?

I didn't notice when she broke up with him, yet I noticed her being thoughtful or even a bit sad now and then, and a few weeks later she started to talk about her feelings regarding her breakup. I told her I'd know how...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

How do I get my friend to stop pressuring me to date?

I’m single and turned 40 this past winter. Throughout my 20’s and early 30’s I was I guess a bit eager to get into relationships and I kinda rushed them. I didn’t sleep with the guys, but it did result in me getting hurt....

Anonymous

(36-45)