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Search Results: guy flaked out
What comes first for you, your kids or your own life goals/dreams?
I've always been raised with the notion that one's kids come before anything else and I've always stuck to that, but one of my kid's friends (VERY rich penthouse suite/trust fund baby type thanks to his dad) always comes...
When a person says “I swear I’m never like this…”?
In my case it’s a fellow, but I’ve seen women do this too. They flake or reschedule then want to act like everything’s fine and they can pick up later, claiming, “I swear I’m never like this… It’s just a busy time in my...
Is "Avoidant Mentality" fake justification for poor behavior?
I was researching a little in response to a different question about folks who "flake" or "ghost" or whatever you want to call the hot-and-cold game some folks like to play. I've always dismissed it as "this guy's a jerk"...
Why does my friend not hang out with us?
Long story here but I need more opinions on this… A couple years ago, I dated this girl for about a month. After a little bit we decided to just be friends. A year later, she started dating this other guy, who has never...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you ever have someone hot and cold?
I figure that if someone’s genuinely interested in me they will show equal effort. I understand that things happen out of someone’s control but if someone flakes on me I won’t go out with them anymore. If they don’t seem...
Guys, I met a guy on a dating app but he spends more time talking about having sex with me, than getting to know me. What should I do?
I’ve been out of the dating scene for fifteen years now and previously I’ve only had one boyfriend. I am very inexperienced when it comes to love, so if my question comes off silly, well I apologize in advance. Anyway, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) What brand do you REFUSE to compromise on? Why? Do you REALLY know the difference? Pepsi challenge anyone? (Look it up kids)? Educate us on the brand?
Conversely, has any brand ever LOST YOUR LOYALTY? Why? Speaking for myself, these are my brands: Boars Head cold cuts. YES I know the difference and gave had delulu deli guys try to slip in store brand. Now I watch like a...
DrPepper12
Master Age: 53 Advice - how to go from casual to serious?
Context: In Jan2024 went on a few dates with a guy and I ended it bc he flaked on me but in actual fact he was telling the truth he had a migraine. Then a month later we Bumped into each other on a night out and we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, should I unsend or write something else, also advice?
I asked him hi how are you doing to which he said bad! I wrote I'm sorry I'm here if you want to talk 🫂 He saw that 17hrs ago hasn't been active since I then wrote about my mom having double eye surgery Wednesday and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Guy has been acting off with communication?
So, I’ve been dating this guy for 3 months. Initially, he communicated in a timely manner etc. He is texting less now and seems to prefer to call me back vs texting. There have been times it takes him a few days to get...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I get him to hang out? Should I throw in the towel?
There’s this guy I’ve know since high school, he’s extremely attractive! We talked on & off, never actually hung out then. We’d try but nothing ever stuck. A few years ago we reconnected through mutual acquaintances. We...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I mess this up?
My apologies if this is long, and thanks in advance! There is girl I was really attracted to that I asked to hang out last December. She had flaked on a few guys I knew to hang out, so I still gave it a try. She said yes,...
Kamaruus23
Xper 5 Age: 26 How do I complain to the police that an evil person is trying to ruin my life because I don’t want her because she known to be a horrible person?
She also promiscuous I don’t want to call her a Hoe out of disrespect but she claims she my soulmate but fuck me over for a different guy and then flake on me for ten years and she doesn’t realize I’m not attracted to her...
CP0729
Xper 5 Age: 27 Mixed signals from guy friend?
Recently, i noticed my guy friend would stare at me with a blank space after talking and i would see his eyes looked down then back up. I see his eyes looking at my lips then staring back into my eyes. We also started to...
Anonymous
(25-29) She flaked or misunderstood me what should I do next?
I asked my co worker out for lunch, and she said yes. We agreed to meet each other, and I was waiting for her and she was surprised like I never asked and she said:" Oh I can't today lets do another time. I was waiting...
magicturtle
Xper 4 Age: 23 Why can’t women be direct and honest instead of flaking and ghosting?
If a woman no longer interested in you whether romantically or sexually she could just text him saying something like “This is where I draw the line, you must continue your life without me, good luck with everything” even...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think my nephew is a loser, or just depressed?
I'm 30, and live with my mom. Reason being is because my mom is an alcholic, and sometimes can't take care of herself, let alone her pets, so I have to. So my nephew and his girlfriend moved in a couple months ago. My...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is she trying to get my attention and copying me?
A few months ago, this girl (Abby) flaked on me after I asked her out and would barely acknowledge me when we crossed paths. I dated someone else for about a month and while I was with her, Abby would do things to get my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a guy be all over you, say he wants you in his life etc, then flake out on meet-ups he’s suggested himself, only messages (no phone calls)?
He used to call occasionally in the past etc not now. He said he ‘wants and needs me in his life’ , tells me I’m ’amazing/awesome, funny, sweet’ but flakes out and ghosts me. What’s going on?
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think girls just deserve to be cheated on?
The amount of times I match with a girl and she’s down to meet and then she ghosts me. You all deserve to be cheated on because I’m such a nice good guy who’s tall + in shape and good looking. Yet that’s not enough to get...
Anonymous
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