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Search Results: he says things that hurt
Avoidant men: have you ever stopped ghosting the same woman you kept hurting?
I’ve been dealing with a guy for years who has a strong pattern of pulling away when things get emotionally intense. The cycle usually goes like this: We get closer / talk more / hang out He gets overwhelmed, stressed,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I stay in this controlling relationship or finally leave?
Been dating a girl for 8 months around Jan. things started to go south. I'm just gonna get to it please read this list. As a side note I did meet this great girl at a community event and I really like her. I been debating...
Anonymous
(30-35) What's go-to phrase explains your personality?
I've been called "a tough cookie" very often and my answer is always to chuckle and say, "Sure, but even tough cookies are sweet. We just need a good strong coffee to compliment us." (As an aside, I started saying this bc...
Is my coworker being a kiss-up or just smart for seeking a desk job?
So I’ve been with this company more than 3 years she just came a few months later, the first thing she said was I’m not planning on working here that long just until this and that, than she says I’m okay with few jobs on...
Anonymous
(18-24) The meaning of a word changed so much. why?
usually a shirt means a shirt! the word has always meant a shirt. most words. but look at how the word 'gay' changed. we know now 'gay' means: the thing we get banned from facebook, if we criticized. ten years ago, when...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 What's Y. O. L. O means for u?
So many people say this: 'You only live once, so enjoy it as much as you can, don’t think too much, just do whatever makes you feel good. But honestly, have you ever thought about it differently? 🤔 If we...
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend keeps breaking small promises—am I expecting too much in our relationship?
Me and my boyfriend have had some problems throughout our relationships and many of them have been resolved. The only one that keeps on happening again and again is broken promises. I keep telling him to only promise...
Anonymous
(18-24) I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?
In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...
Anonymous
(36-45) What advice can I give unloved friend?
I love my friend to death so seeing her so crushed hurts me so bad. she's 38f and im 40m She has a boyfriend with who she has a one year old and a three year old. They’ve been together 10+ years. She takes a lot of the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?
I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I cope with always feeling like the runt of my family litter?
I’ve been feeling really upset and overwhelmed with my family lately. There’s a long-standing pattern where I often feel left out, dismissed, or treated differently compared to my sisters. Things have been building...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
How can I build confidence in dating as a shy, introverted guy?
I am 23 yo male and i had one relationship, we were young and it all was kinda awkward. Since then nothing. The truth is i am kinda picky. Few years ago there was one girl i really liked, things were going well but then...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some women get angry when a man who they friend zoned, chooses to move on and find a girlfriend?
I would like to preface this with, Yes i know i did most of this to my self, and i was even more stupid for letting it carry on for 5 years. There is a coworker i was interested in for years. she's 29 now, athletic,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Who has had the most positive influence on your life and why?
For me - It’s my dad. I don’t talk much of him, but he’s the foundation of all the good that exists in me. All I can say is that I feel like I am one of the luckiest women existing in this world because I have had him....
How do I move on when my boyfriend defended his friends over me?
My boyfriend has been justifying everything his friends did that was bad for longer than a year now, nearly 2 and every time it hurt me and I went to him for comfort he would make excuses for his friends like they're just...
Anonymous
(18-24) If a guy stops mean teasing and turns really sweet, is that a good sign?
So recently, there's been a lot of drama with my crush, and the entire last year everyone thought we were dating. Some people also think he had a crush on me or something.. Anyways this year I noticed he stopped teasing...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you noticed that it seems deep down people know that most people are assholes but don't want to admit it?
It comes out. A lot of times when people do good things , you always hear in America"I wish more people were like that, you can't find many," than later on they say they think most people are good. The truth hurts. Most...
Steven80000
Xper 5 Age: 34 My 2nd Date - Update
2nd Date Update: The Cake, The German "Freak," and some Dark Humour... Warning: Some dark, sensitive historical jokes ahead. We both have a very dark sense of humor, so hope it won’t offend anyone here! So we had our...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I overreacting or should I leave my boyfriend over his anger issues?
I‘ve been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. He is a very sweet and kind person, but recently I have noticed that he gets angry very easily. He already told me this in the beginning, but I never saw it for myself...
Anonymous
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