Search Results: how long to wait before asking out

Was he interested or not interested since he didn’t ask for my number?

I went to the coffeeshop this evening. I was supposed to meet my friend, but she last min wasn’t able to make it anymore. I accidentally sat next to a cute guy and we talked throughout the whole time. He’s a full time...

bobalife

Guru Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Is there any hope, or should I just give up on him completely?

There's this guy, whom I've known for quite some time. We went to middle and highschool together, but I never really noticed him until our senior year in which we had a class. In this class, we were in a group together...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

This girl didn't know that I asked her out on a date? Should I move on?

So there was a girl in my class that i liked and we start talking a bit during my last semester. My masters ended in September, so I thought to ask her out on a date before everyone leaves. I asked her if she wants to go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I wait for her or move on?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

After a first date how long should a guy wait before asking her out on another date?

darkwing91

Xper 2 Age: 34

Relationships

Should I send my goodbye messages to him, then block him on WhatsApp immediately, or wait for him to read it and respond before blocking him?

I have been talking to him for 4 years, he left me last year but we still talk like lovers and it's like our relationship has been going on for 4 years. but for the last 1 year no matter how much I begged him to save the...

cutebird26

Xper 1 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Should I send my goodbye messages to him, then block him on WhatsApp immediately, or wait for him to read it and respond before blocking him?

spaceexplorer1

Xper 2 Age: 27

Dating

Am I a jerk if I ask a guy to go dutch on a date?

Sorry this is long. I matched with a guy on facebook dating. 2 days later we exchanged numbers (I normally wait at least a week before giving my phone number but I’m trying to be more open. I’m feeling like being stuck in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What would you do if your boyfriend got mean during alcoholic blackouts? Do you think he is an alcoholic?

My boyfriend has had 2 DUI before he met me (in one scenario he was not driving actually but sitting in the car with a drink) and has to do all these classes etc has a breathalyzer. He drinks one beer every single day but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Editor Age: 31

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Dating

Why do guys disappear when it comes to meeting?

Background: have been speaking to this guy who works away for almost 6 months now. We were planning on catching up when he is back for the Christmas holidays. We would speak nearly every single day. Last week he would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

How long should I wait to get a response?

Hey getting and finding jobs have been really difficult lately I did an interview for a job role as nursery assistant and I am still yet waiting to hear back from the company the person who did my interview wasn’t...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

HOW LONG DO GUYS WAIT BEFORE ASKING GIRL TO BE GIRLFRIEND?

Almost 2 months ago I was introduced to a guy through mutual friend, and we hit it off right away. He's 27, I'm 25. We see each other at least 3x a week including sleepovers. Neither of us is talking to or seeing anyone...

KateSTL

Xper 2 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Friends with benefits stood me up?

I have known my friends with benefits for 6 years we stopped talking 2 years ago because I no longer wanted a friends with benefits. He reached out to me last month and we started seeing each other again Everything was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is it normal that some random woman I don't even know would ask me for opinions on the skirts she tried on in the dressing room?

For context, I'm in my early 20s. She looked like she was in her late 20s to early 30s. I live in America, I'm White, she seemed like an Asian foreigner who couldn't speak English all that well, or at least not without a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Should I unfollow him?

Some months ago I met that guy who is a friend of a friend. We all enjoyed a lunch together and had a great time. That guy asked my instagram and I politely accepted. I felt he kinda crushed on me but he isn’t my kind of...

ErinErudite

Xper 1 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

How do you handle with someone who's giving hot and cold attitude?

It's been more than 3 years. The thing is.. A lot of thing has been going on in our relationships.. lots of ups and downs between us but we always manage to work it out. Me and her are not in an official relationship...

YeKeTu

Xper 3 Age: 30

Dating

This is a little long, but desperate for advice feel so low, stupid and been made a fool?

I know he's NPD, signs of love bomb discard etc etc and keeping tabs on me. We didn't date we hooked up a few times even though we knew each other online for 2 years, this was about 10 years ago. He dumped me, ignored me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How to ask a guy (28M) that I (23F) slept with once for a hook up / to be friends with benefits? (We haven’t texted for 2 weeks)?

He approached me 3 weeks ago at bar event, got my #, suggested we go for breakfast in the morning. I went home with him, was exhausted by time we got there. He put me to bed, I fell asleep. He didn’t make a move. I felt...

ElizabethEmery

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

How long should I wait to contact to apologize and gain trust?

I broke my ex boyfriends trust and I want to gain it back. He told me he doesn't trust me right now, trust is earned, actions speak louder than words and that he needs some space. Also he was asking how he knows my...

Anonymous

(25-29)