Should I unfollow him?

Some months ago I met that guy who is a friend of a friend. We all enjoyed a lunch together and had a great time. That guy asked my instagram and I politely accepted. I felt he kinda crushed on me but he isn’t my kind of man. I liked chatting with him but it was like talking with a coworker/friend. Nothing more.

He sent a few texts and invited me and our friend to a gathering. I politely declined and I admit I waited some hours before answering to every text. I was hoping he would get the hint that if I take a long time to reply it means I’m not into him. (He admitted to our common friend that he likes me and complained about me not answering fast enough.)

4 months passed and a few days ago I shared some photos of my holiday. He send some texts chitchatting again and made a move by asking me to go on a date together. I frankly and politely declined.

« I'm flattered that you shared your feelings, but unfortunately, I don't feel the same way. I appreciate your sincerity, I hope you find someone who suits you better »
« It's the least I can do 🙏 if in my attitude I sent signs that made it appear that I was interested in you, know that I apologize to you. Good luck for the future. 🙏 »


He thanked me for being frank and unfollowed me.


I didn’t mind that much because I don’t have feelings for him. What I despise is that he called our friend and bitched like a brat, he is older than me but acts like a teenager. I don’t think he’s handsome and he is already a dad. It’s too much for me and I’m looking for someone different. And what I don’t understand is why would he unfollow me but let me follow him? Tbh I don’t care about his life, though I’m a sensitive person I had been cruelly rejected in the past. It still hurts sometimes but I’m moving on. I tried to not hurt his feelings but I fail to understand his reaction. So, do u think I should unfollow him too? I’m hesitating because I got pity.
Should I unfollow him?
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