Why he unfollow me?

[karleeexoxoxo]

This guy that I told I don’t want friends with benefits or anything block me and then he unblock me and follow me on instagram and I didn’t follow him back but kept liking my photos and now he unfollow me

[PrettyPriya]

This sounds like he isn't taking no for answer and trying to get your attention. I am not on insta but I am guessing you get notifications from all of that, right? That would be my first guess is he is seeking attention and hoping that you will reconsider if you he is at the forefront of your mind.

As for what to do... if it becomes stalker-ish and uncomfortable, block him and get it over with. You don't want someone obsessing over you. It may get really bad the more you ignore him and the more he pursues you.

Then again, he may get tired of it and quit altogether. I would just be cautious about what information you release on there so that he can't take that next step and stalk you in real life. That would be a huge concern of mine if he doesn't just let it go and move on, especially considering he was mainly wanting sex.

[karleeexoxoxo]

No he’s not physco or anything, he’s just kid that can’t understand no and he’s plays childish games because he’s immature

[PrettyPriya]

Ok, that is good to hear he isn't like that. Not knowing him, I have no way to tell. I based my opinion on how I would feel and prepare for all things that might happen. He may not be crazy now but he may become obsessive so just at least keep your guard up.

If he persists and won't give up, might be best to block him. That will give it a chance to cool off. Best of luck to you!

[karleeexoxoxo]

Well he unfollow me so hopefully it stays there and he moves on to find another girl to bother

[PrettyPriya]

Ideally, yep you are right. That is a perfect solution. Fingers crossed he got tired and moves on.

[karleeexoxoxo]

He should move on, there’s nothing he can’t do, I’m not going to change my mind or anything

[PrettyPriya]

Nor should you and yes he should move on. It is the right and respectful thing to do when someone says no.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what led up to you telling him you don’t want to be friends with benefits, but my guess is that he blocked you initially out of frustration, because if he isn’t going to hook up with you then he doesn’t want anything else. Then when he re-added and started spam liking your pics, it was probably to get your attention, show that he’s not having hard feelings then maybe he could try another method of getting you to hook up. But when you ignored his efforts, he unfriended you again. Of course I can be completely wrong, but the bottom line is that he is a man-child throwing a temper tantrum because he didn’t get what he wants. You made all the right moves, so I would not even think of it further if I were you.

[karleeexoxoxo]

No your not wrong, he’s just want to get my attention that’s all he wants and him unfollowing was just for me to get my attention

[Texaskid1]

It seems like he wanted the whole friends with benefits thing but you did not want that so he blocked you and is probably chasing after some other girl.

[Guy13]

Boys are temperamental too…

[karleeexoxoxo]

I don't know what this guy trying to do

[Guy13]

You are there SO you know better than I..

Boys are moody too... Is that better? Maybe, he's just having a good time. Everyone does that differently. Why not, just roll with it?

[Ithink_igoodperson]

he wanted so

[karleeexoxoxo]

U mean sex