Search Results: how to feel better after a break up

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Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get mean and distant?

Anonymous

(30-35)

7 d

Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

What was your contribution to your last break up?

I admired him and was insecure knowing that a lot of women were into him. And when we decided to start a relationship, I was constantly looking for validation from him and if I didn’t get it from him, I would feel...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

2 mo

What should I do and talk about on a third date when I actually want something serious?

I usually lost interest after two. In the past, I dated for the wrong reasons, never went there for a relationship, I just proved something to myself and usually two dates were enough. These are dates with guys I found...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

My Ex Reached Out After Years of No Contact, What Was the Point?

A few years ago he and I broke up because our relationship started to go down the drain due to him not filling out any job applications while being unemployed. I never really cared about the money, but I watched how his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How would you cope the best way?

In my past my partner tried to hide from me his ex wanted him back to a ridiculous great of length but I found out anyhows and when I did it had gone by a ridiculous amount of time, which he had during, self inflicted,...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Society & Politics

A Warning to New Yorkers on Mamdani’s Victory: The Corrupt and Exploitative Nature of Socialism

With Zohran Mamdani’s election as NYC’s new mayor, I can’t help but hope he falls flat on his face, that the city craters under his policies, and that the voters who put him there get every last bit of what they voted...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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My girlfriend wants a one-week break, but I feel like she’s slowly letting me go, opinion?

I (25M) have been with my girlfriend (21F) for two years. The past few months have been tough — I’ve had money stress, working six days a week, while she doesn’t work or study. She often said she likes being spoiled, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why are most females’ easily vulnerable and influenced by her friends’ when she is in a relationship?

One thing about most of us guys’ is we don’t allow our friends’ to influence us when we are in a relationship with a girl that we adore , but Girls’ on the other hand allow her friends’ to influence her and then she...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Guy's Behavior

What to do about him talking regularly but not making plans?

I (35, F) been out with a guy (42, M) I met on a dating app 4 times now in the past 3 weeks. He really pursued me after the first two dates and then kind of backed off. On our third date he told me that while he told me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I get over it?

Last year i dated this guy, we were each-others first relationship. It was nice, although he was unable to communicate. He just really couldn’t but he still tried his best for me. A problem I had by myself was that his...

Lovergirlhey

Xper 1 Age: 15

Okay so story time, PLEASE GIVE ME ANY KIND OF REAL ADVICE-On how to judge someone and know their intentions?

I started talking to this guy who trauma-dumped on day one and said “I love you” by day three. He began buying me things every day—food, clothes, even flower plants—despite not having a job and living off an allowance. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you rebuild intimacy after a broken trust?

Just to be clear, I did not cheat but I did make my boyfriend feel unappreciated and unsafe. Backstory : Saw his ex popped up on his phone, I immediately started accusing him and pointing fingers at him. Cornering him,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Is boyfriend embarrassed of me?

I am 25. And he is a few years older than me. Have been dating him for a year and a half. I don't care about social media, but he has never made a relationship status of us. He has never posted me. And he has posted his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Does it sound like my boyfriend is embarrassed of me?

I am 25. And he is a few years older than me. I have been dating him for a year and a half. I don't care about social media, but he has never made a relationship status of us. He has never posted me. And he has posted his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The heart wants what it wants…

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-kxRLxzbiJU “Why are you with him?” I’ve heard that question so many times from my friends. Over coffee, during late night phone calls, in the middle of tear filled silences when I couldn’t...

LiaRaven

Editor Age: 29

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“You Deserve Someone Better”: The Nicest Way to Break a Heart?

The famous sentence we hear after a breakup: “You are so good… You deserve better.” It sounds good at first, right? You think the other person has your best interests at heart, that they deem you worthy of more than you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Why do I keep pushing my girlfriend away even though I love her and want to be close?

Lately, I’ve noticed a pattern where I distance myself from my girlfriend ignoring her texts, avoiding spending time with her and I can’t fully understand why I’m doing it. I struggle with anxiety, and deep down I think...

Anonymous

(36-45)