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Is this coworker into me or does she just see me as a friend?
I started talking to a girl at work slowly. She lives around my house surprisingly and she would talk to me as well. I then offered her rides back home and she agreed and she asked for my number and then i asked for hers....
Am I actually the bad guy for how I handled her grief and drama?
So as a quick recap: This girl I've been helping out has been acting kinda funny around my friends. She flirts with me and is very friendly but around the friend groups I try to include her in it's like she tries to play...
How can I approach women respectfully without feeling like I’m bothering them?
So in order to get a date, I have to actually talk to women, right? The problem is... I feel bad about talking to women in public. Let's negate more common areas where being hit on is more expected, like the bar, a club,...
Is my guy friend secretly into me or just being friendly?
We are friends but when we are alone together he more talkative, he can talk to me for hours even all night, and he acts off if another guy is mentioned or talking to me. His streams when I message (my friend/roommate...
Ex keeps orbiting after breakup—has she moved on or is she just scared?
My ex broke up with me about two months ago. Ever since, she's been on and off, asking me about how my days have been until 3 weeks ago where she started reaching out more consistently — late-night calls, saying she...
Is he genuinely attracted to me or love-bombing and negging my looks?
So I started chatting with a man that I met online who lives out of state. We’ve been talking consistently for about three weeks. He’s very respectful and very sweet. We’ve started to FaceTime, and I’ve noticed that he’s...
Is my coworker actually interested or am I overthinking her signals?
I have gotten pretty close to a coworker over the past few weeks. When we first exchanged numbers, she’d take forever to text back and even admitted she “forgot” to respond sometimes. Then after she went through some...
Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
What does "the guy who likes to watch" actually want from a woman?
I tell a guy I love to dance and he starts to whine about how his dancing days are over. I ask "really"? and start teasing him about it bc he's physically fit and very sporty, so this seems odd. I tell him that it's too...
Am I mistaking a natural flirt’s behavior for genuine interest?
For my job, the people I work with switch from shift to shift. Sometimes I meet new coworkers, other times I reunite with familiar ones. There’s this coworker (32M) I’ve become more familiar with in the past couple of...
Did he actually sense I was settling for him in our relationship?
I was telling him a funny story about a woman settling for a man. He laid in bed with his eyes closed and said "you can settle for me" I immediately stopped talking and was shocked. I had no idea how to react since he...
Is he just using me or is this abusive jealousy after two weeks?
Me and this guy has been talking for two weeks now. I mentioned another guy and then this man starts fat shaming me and saying he doesn’t want me because of it and was just rude. I showed him a photo when I was sickly...
How to help someone become more emotionally intelligent?
i'll try to keep this short since no one wants a whole essay. but i've been talking to this guy for almost four months, and i really do like him. we call multiple times a day for hours at a time. he's funny, witty,...
Was my married boss flirting with me and then suddenly pulled back?
I’m an assistant to an executive manager - we get along great. I’m single and he’s married. Recently in the odd meeting we had online he would (usually before we took time off) would start being a bit playful (nothing...
How do I start taking my friend’s much younger boyfriend seriously?
I've been close friends with this girl for around 5 years ago. she's lovely and we got talking as both are children go school together and are friends. Im married and have a 5 year old daughter called Mabel and she's...
Addiction, emotional abuse, and a new house: should I stay or leave my husband?
I’m 25, and my life has become a tangled web I’m trying to untangle. My husband, J, is 35, and my ex, B (the father of my child), is 24. I met J two years ago after a long, on-and-off five-year relationship with B. We...
Am I to blame for struggling with drive through orders with no training?
I'm talking about taking orders on the head set. We were short staffed today so they called me in early we were super busy my entire shift. It was me, my gm, and another worker. My boss is the only one who knows how to...
What does it mean when a guy starts going out to bars/clubs every night during a relationship break?
My boyfriend told me he needs space from me to reevaluate our relationship. Every night since then, he has been going to bars and clubs. He’s normally so tired from social interaction and would not go out this much. He...
Is my new friend being mean on purpose or just thoughtless?
So I noticed these two girls who seemed interested in being friends... they act weird. For example one of them had created a group with me and the other girl (they both know each other from before). We met up etc. Then at...
How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night. I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition...
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