Is he just using me or is this abusive jealousy after two weeks?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy has been talking for two weeks now. I mentioned another guy and then this man starts fat shaming me and saying he doesn’t want me because of it and was just rude. I showed him a photo when I was sickly skinny and he still called me fat.

i don’t know what happened and I don’t understand why he did that

Updates

1 mo

I’m only 113lbs

[RavVid]

For myself I prefer to be unencumbered when potentially taking up with someone.

I think if you have Bill/Billie, George/Georgia, and Sam/Sammy on the go at the same time then none of them are going to take you seriously.

The guy you mentioned might have my approach but he should have just quietly ghosted you instead of being verbally abusive.

I think both of you have had a lucky escape :)

[Mark_Est]

Only cucks date these modern women. Men only date virgins, there are no magic numbers or cooldown periods. That is what he is thinking. Perhaps to just get some easy ass and move on

[Nikki1989]

Don’t worry, someday the other one will drop. Jeez!

[Mark_Est]

You are butthurt cause you just got exposed/rejected for your own poor life choices.

There is no value for men to date women that get f'd by other dudes. Only downsides. And it is out biological trait to want to ensure paternity certainty and a child that is free of std related damage and other issues that wifing troublesome village bicycles will bring.

So again, no thanks. We all have a freedom of choice. You did yours, now we do ours.

[HollyK21]

I don’t know why you’d deal with any guy like that at all, but two weeks? As in 14 days, give or take? Come on. Walk away from that madness and pretend you never met.

[Nikki1989]

Don't waste your time with asshole men. I just blocked one on this very post. They are really not worth your time.

[beenherebefore]

He showed his true colors really fast. I hope this doesn't affect you too much or make you feel insecure. Move on because he's not worth your time.

[slatyb]

Why is not important. Stop wasting time on him.

[Staximus]

Because he’s an asshole. 113 is not fat

[Looser_Shah_98]

Why would anyone want to be with fat girls?