Search Results: leaving a guy for an ex

Does he like me or was I a rebound?

I met this guy a few months ago and he pursued me HARD for like a month-month and a half. Then one day around its peak he just stopped. I barely heard from him for 2-3 weeks after talking almost everyday. A few times I...

thebiz

Xper 4 Age: 25

Why do men always lose interest in me after a few months?

I (26F) want to understand why so I can fix the problem. Men (6 I’ve talked to in the past year, between 25-42) seem to like me at first, texting, calling, going on dates, and then within a few months it gradually stops....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, how would you feel if you realized you’re better at self-defense than your boyfriend or husband & he’d rely on you more if something happened?

My wife and I signed up for a realism based self defense class awhile ago after an uptick in crime in our city and a few close encounters. We both decided we'd like to know what to do if something happened again. She is...

newgy34

Xper 1 Age: 41

Girl's Behavior

Girl I liked for some time trying to make me jealous/string me along?

There's a girl who works right by where I do whom I've been talking to for months. I would stop by to see her once a week on thursdays during my lunch and talk to her for about twenty minutes or so befire heading back....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you talk to a guy just for fun if his married?

I had a buddy that was always talking about his open marriage how much fun it was to go home to his wife. Still wet from his girlfriend and they would have sex knowing about it all. Well Later I learned from his now...

xkildy

Xper 7 Age: 43

Is it to early to say I’m in REAL love?

Since we got in contact again, my crush (let’s call him Devin) and I have been taking a lot. Our date last week was amazing! We talked caught up. He isn’t the same person he was back in high school. People do change after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you move on from someone you can never be with?

So there’s this guy I’ve had a bit of a crush on for a while now. He’s my friend of 3 years and we’re fairly close. We’re always there for eachother for ex for him I’ve helped with leaving his abusive exes (one he is...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should the next steps be?

In June I (f18) left home for my now ex boyfriend and my family has not been something I want to go back to since then. I have been friends with this guy (m17 almost 18) for 3 years and he’s chased me no matter how much I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

What would cause a guy to break up with you, then change his mind and want another chance?

My ex boyfriend has done this to me twice now. Just this second/most recent time, he hasn't came back yet (still might since this break up is rather recent). Both times were very similar. The first time, he got mad at me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating a guy that is seperated?

Started dating a guy from work. We went on a few dates and I really started liking him. It was really nice we hit it off really quickly. We even ended up sleeping together. He asked me to have a kid with him on our second...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What should I do about a friend who keeps overstepping and being manipulative?

i told her to stop contacting me and my mom - we’ve both been clients of hers and she works at a dept store. I texted her to tell her to please not contact me or my mom again but we got into a dispute over text so not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He said he wants to see me but hasn’t made an effort?

A guy from my past resurfaced recently, an old friend that I had brief “stage” with, I don’t even know what to call it. About a year after my breakup with my ex, this friend would occasionally message me flirty things and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When You’re Doing The Most

How would YOU define or differentiate between these five words— territorial, jealous, possessive, clingy, overprotective? Would you consider some, none, or all of the above to be a toxic trait? Have you or someone you...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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AITA For Leaving My wife Stranded In Another State For Cheating? ?

Went on a vacation with my wife of 5 years down to Tennessee from Michigan. My wife grew up in Tennessee until her family moved up to Michigan when she was 12. It was a big reason I had a crush on her, I thought her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I give back the gifts my ex-gf bought me?

So, my ex-gf bought me 2 really nice sweaters and a Psycho Bunny scarf. Obviously, we broke up. Mostly due to her monkey branching (starting a new relationship behind my back {cheating} and leaving me for that person)....

SeanGtrGuy42

Xper 2 Age: 45

Girls, Just wanted to start out as friends, but he still asks this? What are your opinions? Ever experienced this with a guy friend?

So this guy and I met through mutual friends at college, and we've been texting each other since last week after meeting in person. He asked me if I wanted to hang out, and I told him yes. Even though I could tell he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guilty that I feel conflicted here?

So I dated this guy a few years back that I was so in love with. But, he definitely couldn't decide how he felt about me and it was basically on and off for about 2 and half years. Like, I was constantly devastated. So...

Anonymous

(30-35)