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Did I overstep by warning a girl I like about creepy guys in our group?

There's this girl I like in a shared social group. We've spoken frequently on the phone, went on a date; she said a while back, though, she just wants to be friends; I maintained that I liked her, and we gave each other...
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17 d

He sent a kind rejection text but his birthday is coming up—should I reach out?

I went out on a first date with a guy l met online he was more interested to meet up and i didn’t expect to like him that much but i found him very attractive, soft spoken and smart on the date. 2 days after the date he...
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19 d

Is my 54M coworker actually asking me (32F) out on a date?

Did my 54M coworker ask me (32F) out? He also hid his date from me. What is this? He has always been flirty with me for more than a year, sometimes made worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me but he has never made...
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First meeting in person was awful. Why?

i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
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24 d

In today's dating climate, would you personally be less likely to want to go on a first date with someone, or a second?

Bit of a weird question I know, as most probably would say first, just generally curious if people say second.
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Bit of a weird question I know, as most probably would say first, just generally curious if people say second. Show More
First, due to visual attractiveness being very important personally
First, do to needing to find personality attractive before going on a date
Second, very picky about going on second dates with people more so than firsts
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26 d

Is this really a relationship if I’m always alone with my parents?

I work nights til 3am& have weekend off. this guy I’m dating doesn't have weekend off as he’s a waiter & finishes work at night. there’s no way meet for a date unless we call out or stay up without sleeping. We live with...
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27 d

Is his interest fading after a great first date, or am I overthinking it?

Met a guy on Hinge, he took his time getting to know me before asking for my number/date. We finally went out last weekend and the first date lasted 7 hours. Since then we still text every day, he asks questions, sends...
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1 mo

Do you actually need to kiss on a first date to secure a second date?

People keep saying you do and it’s the only way to get a second date but my experience says otherwise
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People keep saying you do and it’s the only way to get a second date but my experience says otherwise Show More
Yes you do need to kiss on first date - it’s more likely to lead to a second date
No you don’t - it makes little difference if the date is good
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1 mo

A woman who's taller than me likes me, is that unusual?

She asked me out and I said yes, I was surprised she even asked me out because I didn't think women liked guys shorter than them. We hit it off anyway in our first date and have a second.
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1 mo

Why is dating so hard as an autistic woman nearing 30?

I went on a couple dates with some guys and it just didn’t go far. No second dates. in February I talked to this guy for a couple weeks and last month we went on our first date. It was great until he said he doesn’t...
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Or is it luck and looks? Show More
It’s something in his control which he can fix
It’s something not in his control like looks or just luck
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2 mo

Should I pursue the bartender I hooked up with after our first date?

I was out to dinner the other night and found the bartender watching me all night. The next night we were sitting at a small quiet bar. We talked, we kissed, we enjoyed the night. He took me home. I invited him inside. We...
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2 mo

Do you use or like my method to filter gold diggers? How do you avoid her?

When i ask a girl out, if she said yes i say: "Considering we will each pay for ourselves, where should we meet?" Half say "ugh" showed they wanted a free meal. Half ask "like dutch'? So i say 'the first date we each buy...
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Does ending our second date early mean he’s not that interested?

I went out on a second date with a guy tonight. We were supposed to go bowling but lanes were full until late so he said we should go roller skating. It’s been awhile since I’ve been so I was slow and had to hold onto him...
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How do you know when your relationship is sufficiently solid for you to propose?

Over the past eleven years, I have frequently responded to questions on this subject and have always said that you should not consider marriage until you have had a few conflicts with your partner. Almost every...
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2 mo

Did I dodge a bullet with this guy’s controlling, lying behavior?

Going to try to keep this short & sweet. I met a guy, he sold me my car and gave me his number. I texted him that I'd love to go out with him. He set a date to a steak house and I was pretty into him from the jump. BUT......
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Is this guy gaslighting me or just breadcrumbing after ghosting?

I met a guy in late 2024 on tinder and we went on two dates. Both were fun (1st was getting ice cream and going to a walking trail, 2nd was watching The Shining at his place and drinking frozen margaritas). We seemed to...
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