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3 mo

Should I pursue the bartender I hooked up with after our first date?

I was out to dinner the other night and found the bartender watching me all night. The next night we were sitting at a small quiet bar.

We talked, we kissed, we enjoyed the night. He took me home. I invited him inside. We had s3x twice.

He got home okay. We exchanged good mornings and I haven't spoken to him since.

My plan is to pop in wearing something cute and flirty. Be friendly. And ask of if he wants to see me again. Be the one to pursue him.

More context.

W'ere both early 30. I'm African Amercian and he's from Nicaragua.

1) we matched on an app early January and had spoken. He asked me out then but nothing came of it, which was my fault. He messaged me after seeing me at the restaurant and was indicted we grab dinner.

2) the restaurant where he works is a smaller place that I go to several times a year. He says he's worked there several years. I guess neither of is noticed each other?

3) we had s3x twice. The first round He finished really fast. He was sitting on the edge of my bed after. He mumbled something like "I didn't m@sterbate", kinra beating himself up. I could tell he was a little upset. I understand that can be disappointing and embarassing. We cuddled a bit, he gave me a massage I did the same and then I initiated a second round. I kept him focused that time and lasted longer. While it wasn't the best I'd had I did enjoy myself.

I'lI also note that i am autistic so I'm totally oblivious to a lot of social clues.

I will probably post updates as well.

Updates
3 mo
I've been talking to my friend/boss and he thinks I should go see him. Telling that the guy is embarrassed and is probably avoiding it/me.
Should I pursue the bartender I hooked up with after our first date?
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