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I'm really at low profile but that's exactly what my father did from an early age. He found it important for me to handle myself even with a bigger opponent trying to hurt me, in case no one is available to rescue me. He always reminded that daddy can't be there all the time. I've been hearing stories of how several fathers confronted the boy at school and even got physical with him. In one case, a 12 year-old boy threw ice-cream on her and her father comes confronting him.

I only had one boy try to mess with in 7th grade. I finished it myself. My father didn't need to rescue me. Should more fathers do what mine did; teach them to defend themselves?

Maybe they’re meant to be together?

I feel hurt after my cousin secretly started talking to a guy I confided in her about then tried to gaslight me about it and really started struggling with my mental health… I haven’t really dated in my 20s and he was my first real emotional connection.. I really wanted to be with him and we did talk and go out.. he ultimately ended up rejecting me and he just treated me like I was nothing.. I felt really depressed and I found out he was also attracted to trans women.. I have a trans cousin I was close with and I talked to her about it and showed her his @ twitter to see if he there were signs I missed… I just knew something was up awhile after and it sent me to pieces.. like just feeling betrayed and rejected.. I feel small.. and I feel like when I try to talk about it I’m dismissed and they’re encouraged..

I talked to my therapist and she says “is it so bad if they were together?” Or other people saying “so, let them fall in love”

So it’s just been a blow to my self worth entirely and right now I just kind of started doing Onlyfans and other stuff to feel somewhat good about myself and not think about never being chosen by any man.. and wanting to get work done.