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Should I send this message to my ex after 7 weeks of no contact?

ex broke up with me not because l did anything bad, I was good. But she felt resistance and that we would clash. She was a little dismissive/mean at the end. She did say we could be friends. I unfollowed her and told her...
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ex broke up with me not because l did anything bad, I was good. But she felt resistance and that we would clash. She was a little dismissive/mean at the end. She did say we could be Show More
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Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?

I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
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Should we break up?

I'm in an NM relationship, and things have been fine for the most part. IN the beginning, he would say that I was the only girl he was hanging out with and that I was the one he had "the biggest connection" with, meaning...
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My first breakup feels like losing a family member, is it normal?

I’m 18 and don’t live with my parents. I broke up with my first serious boyfriend a few months ago. We lived together, and for me he wasn’t just my boyfriend, he was my home, my safety, my family. His family became my...
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Did my boyfriend fall out of love with me?

I'm in an NM relationship, and things have been fine for the most part. I'm like “the main chick,” meaning that I get to hang out with his friends and meet his parents. This has been used by him to assure me that “our...
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Should I be concerned that my boyfriend does not post me on social media?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost Four years. I normally would have never thought about him not posting me on social media, but red flags started happening. Mutual friends of ours would tag us in photos and...
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How to actually move on?

I don’t know why I feel so anxious whenever I think that my ex (and first love) will get an other partner. I know I’d be so happy for him but something about it still hurts me, I know deep down a part of me still isn’t...
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Was I wrong for not contacting her for 3 days after talking for 3 months?

I had been talking to a girl since May up until a few days ago. We met online. After talking for several weeks and getting her number we agreed to go on a date. The date went well so we kept talking, flirting and sexting...
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How do I handle my complicated relationship?

I've been needing advice on this for a long long time, but never knew where or how to ask. I've been seeing a woman for quite some time now. We started very intense, but both had just gotten out of relationships. We have...
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Can a marriage survive after finding out your wife was sending nudes to another man… on your wedding anniversary?

Six years married. But earlier that day, while looking for wrapping paper, I stumbled across a hidden gift in her closet. It wasn’t for me. I’d had suspicions for months. Late-night Snapchat messages. Weird behavior. She...
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To me, friends and relationships are the song Nutshell by Alive in Chains. Where do I go from here?

If you haven't heard the song, I recommend giving it a listen, in my humble opinion it's the saddest song ever recorded. Anyways, I've opened up and given my heart to 3 women. All of them have broken it. The 1st one, my...
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Am I crazy? Why am I still not over my ex?

My ex and I dated for about 3 years, and we were talking about getting married and all. I broke up with him after he was being insensitive to me after having a miscarriage. Fast forward to about 7 months later, we had...
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Why would my girl friends accusing me for turning down a blind date because of his height?

So earlier this evening after I got off of work, my best friend texted me that our other friend and her found a guy for me and really wants to meet me. She asked if I was interested. I told her I’m working on myself and I...
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Have not heard from boyfriend in over 24 hours?

Here are some important information to know... my boyfriend (34M) and I (29F) have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now... we currently don't live together but see each other a few days each week and something...
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He ended the affair but hasn’t left completely?

I was part of a 10 year affair, we are both married. It wasn’t always sexual, and was emotional for the most part. Out of no where, he drops me. Hell tells me what we are doing is wrong, that he can’t have sex with me...
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I truly didn’t think there were till people like this out in the world?

So I recently got my world shattered by this girl I fell for all her nice words and gestures despite red flags telling me it was all fake worst part is I still care I still wanna see if I can make things a reality even...
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My boyfriend is too secretive and it makes me anxious. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have only been together a couple months. I am well aware that we got together rather soon after he broke up with the girl he left back in his home city. I don't mind this as I am generally a rather...
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Have you ever missed someone so much it hurts?

Yeah that’s pretty much how I feel but there’s nothing I can do about it. I’ll come home on busy days and feel so empty thinking about him. Or I’ll be somewhere that keeps reminding me of him. Or I’ll meet someone who...
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Break up went from being mutual to being very toxic, how to I handle this now?

This all happened a few hours ago sadly. Been with my man for just little under a year. For the most part i was pretty happy but he was a very detached sort of person where as i enjoy love language quite a lot. About...
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Why don't girls give their guy friends a chance rather than friend zoning them?

Its funny... most of the time they say the best relationships are based on friendships. That is false... how is it so often than girls come across very good guys, men they feel safe and comfortable with. When these long...
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