Search Results: why do i feel ugly

26 d

Why do I feel like the ‘ugly girl’ next to my prettier classmate?

Despite having a broad frame and chunky body am flat. My T-shirt is so tight it’s cutting my arm. Why can’t i be like my classmate , tall thin white long hair , curvaceous and light eyed. My eyes are small and an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

27 d

Why do abusive people expect automatic forgiveness and contact?

Thanks to gag for helping me with all this drama! So my niece texted me last night. She feels that my brother ex wife is using her. She feels torn between two adults because someone doesn’t wanna let go. She feels used by...

Paradiseequeen

Explorer Age: 35

1 mo

Why am I so obsessed with my looks even when others say I’m pretty?

everything i do revolves around the way i look, i cannot let myself be seen without makeup in public; even though i look similar without it- at one point i would sleep in it so i could wake up in it the next morning. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

She says she prefers dark‑skinned guys but still compliments me—mixed signals or hiding interest?

I’m trying to decode a girl’s behavior. Here is the timeline: The Indirect: She mentioned that she likes light-colored eyes (I’m the only one in our group with light eyes, so it felt pointed). The Validation: She...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Girls, why don’t many women show compassion for shy or anxious men?

Not all guys are going to have confidence or always feel good about themselves, especially if they don't fit the conventional standards of attractiveness and all of that stuff, but even if they aren't bad looking or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

2 mo

Why does average looking get shamed too, not just the ‘ugly’ label?

When will people talk about how ugly shaming isn’t just something that happens to ‘absolute monsters’? I’m about a 6 out of 10 in attractiveness, and I constantly get compared to other girls and made to feel like there’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

3 mo

Do women care if a guy starts dating late at 32 with no experience?

If he just recently learned a way to accept how he looks and is finally willing to get over approach anxiety at 32. The reason why I have no experience is because of avoiding showing interest. I avoided showing interest...

nightowl_9_4

Xper 2 Age: 32

3 mo

I feel awful about what happened with the guy I was dating. Did he lie all along or was he just avoidant?

I was dating a guy for a few weeks and had been on a couple of dates. Things were slow paced but I figured from what he explained as wanting to build an emotional connection first, that this would obviously build up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

3 mo

Why are there so many ugly souls on here?

I've become one of you. Did feel bad for becoming one of you to begin with but starting to enjoy beeping around here.

ThreeDecisions

Xper 1 Age: 23

Other

How would you go about this situation at work?

Ahh man! So, I have this co-worker who likes to play wingman. When I've told him... I don't date guys I work with. One day we were talking and I had mentioned that I thought 2 of the welders where we work at are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will most men just shag anything?

Im happily married and this is why I said "most men" because i don't think my husband doesn't fall into this category. Myself and husband met in are 20s and are each others firsts in everything not because we were...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Why do I think woman think this when I'm out with my boyfriend?

Whenever I'm out with my boyfriend at a store, other women will look at my boyfriend and I , but when they do I feel like they look at me like " why does she have a boyfriend?" Or like I'm not worthy of having one. I...

Cara20

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Why do I think women do this?

Cara20

Xper 5 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Why doesn't my ex wife leave me alone if she hates me so much?

I know my ex is mentally ill , but she is the one that ruined our marriage and decided i was no longer a priority to her, She would put me down, criticize me , belittle me, compare me to other men , made me feel like I...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

I'm confused, am I doing anything wrong?

Hello! So, I'd like to ask: Why are men not interested in me? I'm 19 (F), still in highschool and I'm graduating this year. I have around 2 girl friends, but I wouldn't say we're close. They open up to me a lot, but I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

This guy im interested in is twice my age and is sending mixed signals, how do I know if he likes me?

Ok a little back story, I am 24F and I work at a family owned store with my grandparent and mother. The guy I am curious about is a frequent customer and family friend. He is in his 50's, and we will call him Paul . Now...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I've been told I'm pretty but why do men never look at me?

I've been told I'm pretty, mostly by friends and older people from my parents friend cycle, but I guess we can't count that. I don't feel invisible only when it comes to men, I kinda go unnoticed by everyone, but that's...

Anonymous

(18-24)