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I have one co worker been fooled by guys. So basically just sex and ghosted her.
she would constantly telling people what did he do, just everything about him.
How he looks , what s his favourite. What he said.
after a while she moved to another guy house and soon they r tgt.
now she just keep talking about him 24 /7

i dont mind or care about her private life but she would make really bad comments on women.
like women around her. like co worker s appearance and being single

for example a recent news.
a guy cheated on his 2years wife. She would say oh the girl isn't pretty anymore. That s why.
Guy being assured of sexual assault, she would say oh money conflict or argument between girlfriend and boyfriend.

she also has strong hate on women who date rich men only.

She doesn't mind spending money and pay for the guys dinner although she s just a general clerk.

i ve been stressed hearing all her shitty comment. And how she would keep a male cat instead of female cat. This is just disgusting. And i m just sitting quite close to her.

these type of things keep happening to me.


Okay here s what happened:

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother.

there s a HR , really like gossiping, keeps telling me to consider dating A. I was like “ i dont know him at all” then she even started thinking about planing on a hangout/event. I casually rejected.


One time we were in a Christmas party at the office. He did sths and said something that made others thought he was defending me. Then the people started smiling at me.

but i dont think i can date people from my workplace. It might turn into nightmares… or it could be a trap so they can make fun of me.

I ignored them for months. Then they started calling me arrogant / waiting for people to chase. I was annoyed so i told them i reached out to a speed dating company. They have stopped.


RECENTLY THEY STARTED IT AGAIN. And one person sent me pic of him talking to another girl told me to make a move or else it will be too late. I was little bit sad at the beginning but now i m alright.

what would u do if u were me?

Im so confused about my ex boyfriend
Giving me mixed signals and all

Me and my former partner had a massive bad break up 6 months ago
This week he's been sending me love messages to get see me and get back together
But then I said no and he started sending me rude messages

He keeps calling me b*tch, sl*t, h*e.. etc
Keeps saying I left him for another guy (which is not true)
Blah blah...
He keeps blocking and then unblocking when he wants to say something

Then today (a week later) he tried to add me on social media
And messaged me saying:
- he's sorry
- he's just angry because i moved on so quick and he couldnt
- he knows we can't be together anymore and he doesn't want to
- he wants to be civil and mature
- he's doing his own thing
- he doesn't want to interfere with my life
- he doesn't need or want anyone
- he recognizes I've always been there for him
- he wants to move on
- he wants to have each other on social media

I replied “i dont understand u…”
Then he replied “i dont either but thanks for accepting my add”

Why would he want to have each other on social media if he wants to move on?
Why would he add me again?
It doesn't make sense