Why did my ex try to add me again?

[Anonymous]

Im so confused about my ex boyfriend
Giving me mixed signals and all

Me and my former partner had a massive bad break up 6 months ago
This week he's been sending me love messages to get see me and get back together
But then I said no and he started sending me rude messages

He keeps calling me b*tch, sl*t, h*e.. etc
Keeps saying I left him for another guy (which is not true)
Blah blah...
He keeps blocking and then unblocking when he wants to say something

Then today (a week later) he tried to add me on social media
And messaged me saying:
- he's sorry
- he's just angry because i moved on so quick and he couldnt
- he knows we can't be together anymore and he doesn't want to
- he wants to be civil and mature
- he's doing his own thing
- he doesn't want to interfere with my life
- he doesn't need or want anyone
- he recognizes I've always been there for him
- he wants to move on
- he wants to have each other on social media

I replied “i dont understand u…”
Then he replied “i dont either but thanks for accepting my add”

Why would he want to have each other on social media if he wants to move on?
Why would he add me again?
It doesn't make sense

Deep down he still wants you/have hope

He genuinely wants to move on

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you feel confused and unsure about your ex's behavior. Based on what you've described, it sounds like he may be struggling with his own emotions and is sending mixed signals as a result.

It's possible that he still has feelings for you and is struggling to move on, which could explain why he is sending love messages and then switching to rude messages when you reject him. However, it's also possible that he is simply trying to manipulate or control you by playing with your emotions.

As for why he wants to have each other on social media, it's possible that he wants to keep tabs on you or stay connected in some way, even if he knows that a romantic relationship is not possible. Alternatively, he may simply want to be on good terms with you and keep the lines of communication open.

However, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries in your interactions with your ex. If his behavior is causing you distress or making it difficult for you to move on, it may be best to limit or cut off contact with him altogether. It's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and you have the right to make choices that are best for you.

[boggboss]

Because hebstill thinks somthing can happen

[Asker]

What makes u think that?

[boggboss]

That thats the type of behaviour he is showing by his actions if he wanted to move on but gets angry with the speed u moved on adding u wouldn't help him with that

[strateguy632]

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