What does it mean when a guy call you 'weird'?

A guy friend who jokes around with me, flirts with me, told me I'm so weird after I made a joke. This is like the third time he told me this.

Am I supposed to be offended? Was he just joking or was he serious about me being weird?

If a guy likes the girl, would he ever say she is weird to her?


Most Helpful Guy

  • It means you are weird.

    Now, seriously. Yes a guy would say that if he likes the girl. He probably is just testing to see if you have a sense of humor and can laugh at yourself. I test girls this way myself. Think about it, being together whit someone who takes herself too seriously, and has no sense of humor can be such a pain.

    • He says it even over the phone while laughing..

      Would he say it even if he just thought of me as a friend?

    • It could also be just as a friend. It depends on the guy's personality. If you know him well, you might be able to tell if he does the same to other girls. But I would think its probably 60% probability he likes you romantically.

What Guys Said 5

  • he could be joking or serious. only you can tell if you know him well

  • yah... just yes.

    i say this to girls (some of which I like) all the time

    unless it obviously wasn't, it was probably a compliment

    and weird isn't bad. most guys want their own special girl that is theirs and unique.

  • Holy sh*t, you must be a freak, and he is in love you but you are so crazy he can't be with you! lolz. If he is flirting with you it is obv working because you are in such a tizz over a benign comment. You are probably a little quirky and that is all, if you were too weird, he probably would be running for the hills.

  • he was teasing you if you were actually weired enough people comment on it he woulden't be hanging out with you even


What Girls Said 2

  • He likes you...

  • Haha a guy has called me weird before. Turns out he liked me... but I call everyone weird all the time, its nothing personal. just a joke:)