All Questions

I'm shy, she's outgoing, how do I approach this girl?

I'm in college, and I recently me this girl who's really cool and lots of fun to be around. She's the life of the party and really outgoing, she's always talking to everyone, but she's not a slut or anything like that....

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy says Good night, sleep tight, etc...?

Does it mean anything if a guy says good night and that kind of stuff? maybe he likes you? or no? is it just friends? also if he compliments you, makes you laugh, etc

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Should I confront my girlfriend about her talking to random guys online?

Okay so its plain and simple, my girlfriend has two cites that I know of called 'tagged' and 'myyearbook'. on her my yearbook it says she's in a relationship so that's a good sign, but I'm not sure about her tagged. I've...

AllenShoutNever

Xper 5 Age: 34

Kiss on the lips? What does it mean to a girl?

A girl that I like was with her girl friends at a nightclub. As her two friends were leaving, she gave one of her friends a peck on the lips. So I ask can I get a kiss on the lips. She gave me a peck on the lips. Does it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How to deal with the one upper friend?

My best friend tends to be somewhat of a one upper and also when you get something new say a car or TV whatever he's quick to list any problems or dislikes for that item do know anyone like that? How did you deal with them.

pheonixhart

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

What should I bring to Dinner at my boyfriend's house?

I'm going to my boyfriends house for dinner and this is the first time I'm meeting his parents, and I don't want to show up empty handed! But I don't know what to bring. I'm 17 so I can't bring any alcohol btw!

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the appeal of generic trashy blondes?

I'm very sorry to stereotype, but everyone knows exactly the type of girls I'm talking about when I say 'generic trashy blondes'. The ones with zero self-respect. The ones who advertise their sex appeal, claiming they...

coco489

Xper 6 Age: 36

Asked me to be his girlfriend on the first date... should I be concerned?

We are both 24... met him online did not really talk online. I texted him.. he called...we talked and set up a date not even a week later. We met and he was smitten with me off the bat based on his body language. I ended...

JAMW1

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

How do you know if a guy is completely over you or not?

guys prefer.. to answer this girls can to. just want to know the basis of how you would know if a guy is completely over you and what are some good questions to ask ..the guy or whatever.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

First time at a nightclub--what to expect?

So a club opened up down the road from me, called Electric Cowboy. And considering it's a mile away from a huge college, probably has tons of people, haha. I'm considering going, but I've never tried clubbing and have no...

AndyWes

Guru Age: 34

She called me adorable. Is that a good thing?

I was hanging out at the bar with one of my friends and a group he brought along. I ended up sitting next to one of the girls and we spent most of the time there getting to know each other. When our attention shifted to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sometimes my boyfriend hits me and scares me

well we've been dating for 9 months, but 4 months ago he started acting different. one time we were laying in bed and kind of out of no where he said if you ever try to leave me I'll kill you. I remember I tensed up and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Do you ever feel self conscious for being good looking?

There's no humble way to ask this question but I'm curious. I find that people assume I am conceited because I'm attractive and carry myself confidently. I used to be timid. I thought being more outgoing would attract...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Would you want your girlfriend to pose in Playboy?

This girl I date was asked if she would like to be in Playboy. I am hugely against it. Everyone she's spoken to seems to be super excited about it.. Even her f***ing Dad said he was proud of her! WHAT THE f***?!?!...

Leocris

Xper 5 Age: 40

Shopping & Gifts

Tattoo on my wrist...

I want to get a tattoo saying "loyalty" on my wrist. Does it matter if I get it on my left or right hand/wrist? And If you would say yes, why is that? Might be a little weird question. I'm just making sure that I'm not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy bites you on the neck then continues kissing?

i just wanted to know because my boyfriend does it to me I don't mind I just wanted to know what it means..? like is he giving off certain signs that I'm not catching.?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are guys always attracted to their female friends?

I have heard this before and I'm not sure if it's true. I would call myself a fairly goodlooking girl, but I'm not so vain as to assume that every guy out their thinks I'm attractive, including my guy friends. Wouldn't a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a girl have to have to be considered hot by the guys (bodywise)?

I want to understand the concept of hot to guys they say girls with big boobs and ass are hot but then when they see a thin girl with a flat stomach and almost flat chest they also say she's hot I'm not criticizing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

What do you think of zoo york brand?

the clothing brand, in case you didn't know. I've never worn clothes by them, and was never into the brand until I saw and bought this sweatshirt link since it was so cheap and the back looks really cool on me. What...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are guys attracted to female musicians?

Is it attractive for a girl to play an instrument?

eliza517

Xper 5 Age: 32

Does the good outweigh the bad in a relationship?

When you're in a relationship and you have a ton of great moments together, but you also have a lot of arguments, which outweighs which? Is it worth staying in the relationship for the good moments or no?

alexisg10

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why does my guy friend ignore me ?

this guy friend , well I wouldn't consider him as a friend , but he is kinda like a friend . anyways we have everything in common . He's the boy version of me , we even say stuff at the same time sometimes . but he'll do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a married man stare?

There is this guy at work who constantly stares at me. The stare is deep but he is married, doesn't wear his ring and I have heard he won't get a divorce because his wife will take him for everything he has. How do I...

kmit2004

Xper 3 Age: 46

"Would it be OK if I asked you out sometime?"...Why ask this?

Why do people, before asking someone out, sometimes ask "Would it be OK if I asked you out sometime?"? I just watched the very first episode of Friends where Ross says that to Rachel. I mean, isn't that a mood killer? Why...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm 22, she's 17... we're at different stages of our lives... is it appropriate to date & would it work?

I'm 22, in my final year of university, I have a responsible job and I live away from home with uni friends. I'm back at my parents' home for Christmas and I've been chatting to and hung out with a girl who lives nearby....

billy_young

Xper 7 Age: 35

Shopping & Gifts

Should I ask her out on her birthday?

If we already know each other, is it okay if I call her and ask her out for dinner on her birthday? Or would most girls prefer to spend time with family (especially if the girl is family-oriented)?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend made a fool out of me again!

My ex and I met last year. While we were dating, he didn't tell me entirely about his past multiple girlfriends. He did tell me a close female friend likes him. I was upset and fought with him to tell her about us and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting tips for long car ride?!

So I'm going to be in a very long car ride tomorrow. I'm going with my best friend whom I have a bit of a crush on. What are some cute ways I can flirt with him in the car? Like massage the back of his neck while he is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to respond when a guy calls you beautiful?

My boyfriend occasionally calls me beautiful and I usually just say thank you, but I don't know, I feel like I should say something more... any ideas?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend makes me cry and I feel like I'm worthless

My boyfriend makes me cry and I don't know if he knows this. He doesn't talk to me as much as he use to and doesn't seem to want me as much as he use to. It's as if he just wants me for sex but I want to be on an...

amyvic

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

My boyfriend is always so damn grumpy...

We've been together for over a year now. A good 70% of the time I talk to him, he's upset about something or something hurts or just something negative. It sort of brings me down. But when he's good and not Mr Grumpy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What did he mean when he said "I love you to death"?

There's a man I know professionally and he asked me not to make public something he told me in confidence. He said, "(my name), I love you to death, but please don't write that." Caught me by surprise. A day later, he...

Newswoman

Xper 5 Age: 70

A guy asked me to go snowboarding with him

We're driving there alone and meeting a couple of his friends when we get there. He's picking me up and it's a 2 hour drive to get there. Do you think he's into me? We used to study together in a class we had together...

ninabobina

Xper 5 Age: 34