Only part of what you listed that I really notice is her stomach. It's one of my favorite parts of her body so I like a relatively toned and slim stomach. Other than that its simply a matter of weight.
I have a pretty strict tolerance (apparently considering other guys' preferences) when it comes to a a girls weight. Maybe its because I'm not exactly a huge guy and all the women in my family are very small and petite. So its what I'm used to. Not saying I want a twig or only settle for victoria secret models, but if your 20lbs overweight, its a huge turn off for me.
Muscle tone is really not an issue on things like arms, legs, etc. Again, its not about having muscle, its about not being fat. Obviously a little bit of muscle tone makes you look healthy and slim, but too much just makes you look like a guy.
Looking like this is fine link Toned and healthy, but not buff looking. Her arms dont' even look muscular, she just doesn't have excess fat.
This link on the other hand is far to buff. She looks to masculine.
Just take care of your health and the rest will fall into place. Eat a decent diet. Get decent exercise. Stay away from unhealthy lifestyles. "Decent" doesn't mean a perfect diet or be out running marathons. You don't need to push yourself to extremes. Just general common sense about your health.
Your health is the most important thing in your life. Yes, it will show and be attractive to men, but you should be doing it anyway. Take care of yourself. That body needs to last a very long time so don't neglect it.
I think they care more about the overall body shape, proportions, if the clothes look cute on her, if she takes care of herself, and most guys want a body that's not extreme. Girls get way too obsessed.
I don't get why girls try to find security in thinking guys prefer an untoned body to a toned body instead of just exercising
Yes they notice and it can look disgusting and gross.
If he's having sex with you and keeps having sex with you, then no, he doesn't care.
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Physical appearance gives a lot of attraction to men because we tend to place a lot of importance on them. That's why a mere 2 second look to woman is enough to tell whether we want to spend time with her. Unlike most women who place attraction on the behavior aspect.
We usually don't go to details like toned biceps or anything. But we place majority of our time looking for boobs. Yes, boobs. Boobs defies all laws and logic.
Yes! We notice just as if you would notice if we didn't brush our teeth or didn't take a shower. There are gyms everywhere. One can do exercises at home. There's the internet for nutrition information. There's no reason why young women should not be toned, if they're concerned about their looks.
Now, if you aren't concerned, then don't worry about guys approaching you because they'll see all of that loose flesh and will be turned off. At least the ones with standards.
I don't care if hipbones show... Its not an issue unless she is really out of shape or her body is just so untoned it sags a noticeably. I don't really look for bicep or tricep tone or muscles, I prefer nice toned legs and butt.
No I wouldn't say that's over weight, nor would it effect me on going out with a girl. There is a thing as being too thin, and sometimes when your bones are showing, I think that is way too thin.
I'm not really attracted to crazy fit girls in general. I'm not really attracted to obese girls either.
Why can't people just be normal these days? smh
They notice, but like us they don't care. My boyfriend isn't really in shape but he sorta has muscles (he use to play baseball) but he hasn't worked out in forever. But I still think he is the sexist guy in the world(:
if her thigh muscles dont show, thats ok. but if they can still flex their thigh muscles and i can feel them, thats ok... they dont need to show that much, even tho that would be a plus. but with you, do you think your thighs are toned?
It think the most unattractive features would be flabby under arms and sagging boobs other than that is fine by me
YES
It's first noticed, then something to hurtle
It helps if you counter by "seeking a workout partner"
No. Girls are much more critical about a woman's appearance than men are.
Girls always trip about how they look and they usually look fine. I usually wouldn't even notice something like that.
Notice? Sometimes. Care? Not really.
Notice - sure
Care - not really
Notice-maybe
Care-not really
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