All Questions

Is wearing skinny jeans slutty?

Ok, so I have a nice hourglass figure and so when I wear skinny jeans it really shows out my curves. I was wearing this nice pinkish-red skinny jean with a nice fitted brown turtle neck with casual black converse. Some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Would you date a tourist or an international student?

Would you date a tourist? Lets say they are in the city for up to 4 months.

MarikYo

Xper 7 Age: 36

Flirting

Kissed crush while drunk

so I like this guy he's my friends friend. I've only met him a couple of times I know its probaby too early to like him but for some reason I do. we Haven't exchanged numbers we only hangout through our mutual friend....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Am I overreacting concerning my boyfriend having inappropriate conversations with an ex girlfriend?

Recently while I was using my boyfriends phone I found an inappropriate texting conversation between him and an ex girlfriend of his. The texts involved him telling her about an intimate dream he had about her and also...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls do you ever fake being mad about something just to 'test' how he will react to you?

I wonder if this is something girls would do a lot. be pissed about something just to see what he does.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it my turn to text him first? Or should I wait for him? Guys opinions?

Me and this guy text each other quite frequently. We talked both last Sunday and Wednesday for over an hour (him replying within a minute of me sending a text..i took a little longer but basically we sent a lot of texts)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Is it true that men find women who play an instrument attractive?

I was watching various music pieces on YouTube, played on different instruments to see how different they would sound. One one harp video, someone joked that the votes down were by boys who couldn't get a talented...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Is having a lisp a deal breaker ?

I have a small lisp. No idea whether or not if it comess from my crooked teeth or not. But I feel bad enough about how I look. Is having a lisp a turn off/deal breaker and what can I do? Honesty please

ForestCrush

Xper 6 Age: 34

Girls that do not like wearing skirts, can you explain why?

The question is above for you to answer. Thanks for the input.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what length of hair do you find most attractive on a girl?

This is completely your opinion. Short? Medium? Or long? Any particular reasons for this preference?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I only attracting (seemingly) desperate men?

I only seem to get dates with guys who go from 0 to relationship in two dates OR guys who (very honestly) just whip their junk out immediately (either through email or in person). Since I am the common factor I am curious...

LunaSea97

Xper 3 Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

My husband is acting like a dog in heat, chasing all girls around. What to do?

I found out about my husband's weird behavior online, on his secret FB account. I installed a key logger and went into this FB account he made and I read all the messages. He has ALL women, no men, in there. He listed...

daisymoore105

Xper 5 Age: 49

So girls, what drives you crazy about a guy??

just wondering what drives you crazy about a guy? (The question explains itself)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

This guy invited me to church, but how do I know he's interested in me or even likes me?

So this guy who graduated three years before me saw me at a choir concert (because his best friend was in it). And after the concert he saw me and started giving me compliments and was hugging me constantly. Like no joke...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it that lots of older people say I'm pretty, but people my age rarely say a thing?

I've just been noticing lately that a lot of older people (40s and up), both male and female, have been commenting on how pretty they think I am and whatnot...yet, people closer to my age (early 20s) tend to not say...

littlesecrets

Xper 5 Age: 35

Flirting

GUYS: do you like surprise hugs?

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 weeks, we are not officially dating yet (as in we don't call each other our bf/gf). We've been going out for dinners, movies, etc. Sometimes he playfully touches my arms and shoulder...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is considered a good looking guy?

What are the basic standards? And do non super attractive guys have shots with beautiful women? How can they compensate or even get a chance.

joseph2010

Xper 5 Age: 34

Co-worker won't acknowledge me?

So, there's this guy, he's a bit older than me, maybe 30yo. We've been working together in a drugstore for about three months. He's always treated me in a strictly "correct" manner, he's polite and all, but no more than...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, how many of you wear cowboy boots?

I find it so attractive if a laid-back guy has a nice southern side to him and wears cowboy boots. This guy, prob in his 20s, came into my work alone wearing cowboy boots last night...and I had to talk to him and teach...

courtniX

Xper 6 Age: 32

I catch a co-worker looking at me, when I look at him he quickly turns away. He has a girlfriend. Why??

This behavior occurred months ago and I sent an email trying to find out his interests outside of work. I found out he has a girlfriend and at that time the glances subsided. Now a few months later, the glances are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when a guy stares at you smile from a distance?

There this guy who always stares at me but when I smile I notice he stays looking from a distance holding his stare. HE think I don't know he does this.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Guys, Is it bad to workout twice a day?

Is it too much? Like if I workout in the morning and then at night, not everyday though. And by workout I mean go to the gym, What do you think?

rizabelle

Xper 6 Age: 32

How long should a pair of socks last?

It seems to me my socks don't last as long as they should. How long to other peoples socks last? Generally they last like 4-5 months.

stewartdent

Xper 6 Age: 41

Dating

Girls: Are you generally suspicious and/or repulsed by men?

I know it sounds like I'm trying to verify some bitter suspicion, but that's not my intent. I recently have been running into more and more statistics that really give a bleak outlook on how women feel about men lately....

OpenClose

Yoda Age: 35

Relationships

Why does he praise his ex girlfriend in front of me, when he says he loves me?

Me and My guy friend really like each other a lot , we are so good together , but yet he has a past , he sometimes brings up his ex girlfriend and begins to praise her and talk of all stuff she would say and do . I go...

TessAshwin

Xper 6 Age: 38

Shopping & Gifts

My coworker just got engaged...should I get him anything for it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex caught me driving past his house, how bad could it turn out?

We broke up more than a year ago but we sort of still secretly into each other but nobody wants to make a move. He tease me a lot and friends always caught him looking at me. I drove past his street yesterday as he was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am blond and my boyfriend likes brunettes?

I know I shouldn't worry about this , because he's still with me and seems he loves me. But still it makes me worried.. I am natural blond with blue eyes, and my boyfriend says I'm pretty but he also says that he prefers...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I always being called ma'am? I'm 21 years old but everyone... cashiers, faculty at my college, random

people in stores that ask random questions (where is this, what time is it), etc calls me ma'am. I hear it from both men and women, but more often from men, ranging from my own age to fifties. And it's not the dress...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls like guys who make them laugh?

ok, I understand this and I know its not just jokes or something but just being funny about stuff etc. Idk what's up, but most of the time when I say things, this girl laughs and giggles. I do like her a lot more then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl next door types: Why do guys like them?

I was just called the "girl next door type" and some of my male friends were talking about how they do/don't like them. Why do guys like them? Does it have anything to do with the type of guy? And do they mean my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do people feel uncomfortable around quiet people??

it seems annoying and irritating when people feel uncomfortable around quiet people.. yet I have to force myself to be loud.. its like being quiet is a bad thing when it is not

gtex1991

Xper 6 Age: 35