My ex boyfriend says I'm too dramatic person

[Anonymous]

hey

just heard from my friend that my ex told her that the reasons of our break up is because I'm dramatic person and childish!

childish I can understand because of my jealousy but dramatic I don't see why :S

I wanna send him a message small one saying I'm not a dramatic person but don't know how can anybody tell me what to say and do cause I don't want him to keep this image of me in his head

that whenever he sees me or hear my name thinks oh the drama queen

I knew him for almost four years and It breaks my heart that the sees me that way

[missymarkath]

honestly as much as you WANT to tell him this, I would leave it be.

you would just be fueling the fire.

he will look at your text as being dramatic know what I mean?

let him think whatever he wants to think about you.

what matters is who YOU think and know you are.

[Asker]

yeah, you're right it's just I hate when someone sees me something I'm not it hurts :c

[missymarkath]

i know we all do. I have been in a spot like yours before. I think we all have.

it drives you nuts for someone to GIVE you qualities you DONT have.. but I've learned its better to just ignore it and move on.

[_jxycee_]

Why the fuck do you even care about what he says? Seriously, he’s your ex. Stop caring about what others think of you. It’s unattractive. So the fuck what if you’re a drama queen? That’s your problem. Not anyone else’s.

[Primrose]

Why do you care? If anything since he's an ex his opinion of you should affect your immediate surroundings. You fussing over it could be a sign of it. Be the bigger person and ignore.

[martyfellow]

Often calling someone a 'drama queen' is just a way to dodge the fact that his behavior provoked a lot of drama!

People can't help being dramatc wen their partner ,lets them down or abuses them constantly!

[temptationfalls]

By sending him a message because you heard he called you a drama queen makes you exactly that. A drama queen. Leave it alone.

He's your ex. Leave it at that.

[TheThirdSeason]

Why do you even care about what he say?

Just move on. Does his opinion about you matter? I mean be glad that he is not your boyfriend anymore.

[Prof_Don]

I save leave it be...there's not much you can do to convince him that you're more "mature" by showing maturity and leaving this situation alone.

[ExVsGirl]

You don't need to prove to anyone that you're not a drama queen.

[Crazyfuncat]

A drama queen would react to that statement. Don't let it bother you.

[Anonymous]

Same thing as everyone else- don't react to what he's saying. It's hard because it's a pretty harsh thing to say about someone, but try not to let it get under your skin.