All Questions

Are shy guys uncomfortable around girls they like?

I've had a history of nonverbal flirting with this guy. And most people say he's really quiet/shy but he is not around me. He seems really comfortable around me lately since he's warmed up to me. He seems to be trying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What happens on a movie date?

Will most girls let you put your hand over their shoulder during a movie on the first date? And should you ask before you do it?

dsvjr

Xper 3 Age: 34

It has only been 6 weeks...and he says he LOVES me!

My boyfriend and I have only been together for 6 1/2 weeks and last weekend he told me that he was In LOVE with me! I care about him very much. We see each other just about every day. But I feel like it is still too early...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guy coming over to my house WHAT SHOULD I DO???

A guy that I've been making out with for about 5/6 weeks is coming over to my house tomorrow for a while. is it okay just to hang around and watch tv??? thanks!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like comforting & taking care of guys?

I was hanging out with this girl on the weekend and we were relaxing in my room laying in bed. I was on the floor, she was on the bed. She couldn't help but notice that something was bothering me. Eventually she asked me...

DaBlah

Xper 3 Age: 40

Dating

Girls, what annoys you the most in guys?

I know that there are many things that guys do that annoy annoy the hell out of girls. Please vote in the poll and explain why in the answer.

Quackpotty

Xper 6 Age: 42

Why do guys get spooked?

Why do guys get spooked when they are in a serious relationship? What is so scary about commitment? What is so scary about loving someone?

lostandconfused

Xper 6 Age: 48

Things have changed between us but I don't understand what happened!

I met this guy in my martial art class. In the beginning he flirted and came up to me whenever we saw each other. I won't go into the details, but to summarize he was very attentive to me. We never did anything, and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it ugly to have a mole on the face?

I have a small mole below my eye on my right cheek. It isn't anything huge it's small and there is no hair or anything gross growing out of it lol. It is just big enough for people to see, and sometimes I think that my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do guys feel about lip gloss?

How do you feel about lip gloss? Is it sticky, or does it get you excited? How about lipstick? Feel free to elaborate on your vote. Do guys like lip gloss? What do guys think about lip gloss?

mbeth881

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do women have "dream cars"?

I understand most women don't care anywhere near as much about cars as guys do, but ladies, if your boo wanted to surprise you with your ultimate dream car for your birthday -- one that was specifically YOURS to drive,...

x9354

Xper 6 Age: 44

Why did he change his mind so suddenly?

My boyfriend and I went out for 3 months, I know its not so long but we saw each other everyday almost and we were like best friends. He was sooo into me in the beginning, he even bought me gift when he went on holiday...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Is it ok to show your weakness to a girl you like?

Is it good to tell your problems to a girl you like? Or show your incapability of doing some stuff? Will it turn her off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why don't women like wearing pantyhose?

I thought I'd throw this out there for all of you women. I saw a feature on on of the morning news shows that said women are not wearing pantyhose to work and formal events as in the past, and pantyhose wear is declining...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Boring Boring Boring Guy!

Has anyone ever had someone that is interested in them and they are so boring? They call and you would rather have a root canal then talk to them? A guy is interested in me, finally I can talk about someone besides the...

Lesae

Xper 7 Age: 58

How is it so easy for men to turn off emotions?

How is it so easy for men to turn off emotions and for women we wear our hearts on our sleeves and dwell? I'm going through a really hard breakup and he seems to be able to turn off his emotions like I never mattered...

lostandconfused

Xper 6 Age: 48

What does "it's complicated" mean?

Hey guys I was reading the guy I like's profile page and on relationship status he says "its complicated" but were always flirty when we meet he still hasn't asked for my number or anything does this means he's attached...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls how do you feel when a guy walks out during an argument?

I'm a guy and whenever I get frustrated during a conversation I leave the house. The thing is I'm going to come back I just need to think about things and calm down. It's almost like an adrenaline rush that needs like 10...

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Other

Why does my boyfriend only talk on the phone outside?

So I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now and it has always bothered me that every time he makes or receives a phone call he has to go out the front door to talk. I'm talking every single phone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like shy and quiet girls?

Well I'm a very shy person, people say that I'm very beautiful but I've never had a boyfriend before and I don't know if it's because I'm too shy and quiet I need you to tell me what you think?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys care about uneven breasts?

So not to sound too cocky but I'm a pretty attractive girl but there is one thing that bothers me and I want to know if it's a big deal to guys. One of my boobs is bigger than the other. Do guys really care about that stuff?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I look?

This is a really bad picture of me. My eyes look really squinty but anyways how do I look? I don't want to sound like all I care about is looks but I just want to know how I stand on a scale of say 1-10. I would post a...

sassysinga2

Xper 5 Age: 35

What do guys think about Girls who never wear shorts ?

I don't wear shorts in the hot weather, I always wear long pants and jeans all summer long. I'm not overweight and have nice legs, I just don't want to show them, because I will feel kind of naked and like in my...

Shy-Jen--

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

Women, do you care if your guy watches porn?

If I guy starts dating and he likes to watch porn, should he tell his gal? Or should he just keep it a secret?

cardioman65

Xper 3 Age: 61

What does it mean when a guy says he kind of likes your personality?

I mean, either he likes you or not, right? So what is he really saying and should a girl feel bad about that. He says he likes everything else like my looks but says he kind of likes my attitude sometimes. Is this a bad...

Deeplove55

Xper 5 Age: 41

Commitment phobia / Relationship sabotaging...

It seems to me I have a bit of a problem. Whenever I meet a guy I like I wish nothing more than to see him or talk to him everyday, that is. Until I find out he likes me back. Once I know he likes me I get bored and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I just found out my boyfriend of six years cheated on me 4 years ago, what do I do?

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and have always suspected that he cheated on me multiple times the first few years we were together. Of course I never had proof so I stayed with him. Well I finally have my...

luckybreeze

Xper 5 Age: 45

Shopping & Gifts

How do I handle my boyfriend wanting to join the guard?

My boyfriend recently decided he wants to join the National Guard. I don't want him to at all but its ultimately his decision. He will be gone 11 months for training and may get deployed. He wants me to support him but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy keeps standing you up?

Maybe he's no interested? But then why would he do it over and over again? It's so inconsiderate and rude.

Deeplove55

Xper 5 Age: 41

Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?

Hi girls...I am an Indian guy (East Indian) living in the US...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to...

sweetguy

Xper 5 Age: 43

Do you think it's tacky to wear VANz or Converse to the gym?

I mean I would but I'm thinking people might look and be like, "where are your running shoes? " Honestly I don't own any. I play sports and stuff. Just never invested in them. Help a sister out!

dreday

Xper 5 Age: 39