Guys does it mean anything if an ex still has pics of us in his house?

[Anonymous]

He's the one who broke if off because he said he's not in-love with me? but put pics are still on his fridge, on top of his dresser. He had put some away and created an album. Does that even mean anything?

[Anonymous]

No, users and dumpers would keep memories of their victims always, when you ask them why, they'd say to the new one in their lives: this girl/guy was a part of my life, I don't want to let go of these memories... because in reality, people like this only has one main goal in their lives, that is to have/use as many suspected partners as they can, that's their game, and such people are the worst kind you'll ever know. People to them are sexual objects, to have fun with, to spend time with, and in the end they are only faces to them.

[ageofabenius]

... Or maybe he misses her

[Opinion Owner]

I don't want to say that he doesn't, but it's not really worth it to think about it since he was the one to leave and for no reason, guys/girls who use others hurt themselves in the first place, that's why they live with emotional problems.

[Anonymous]

Of course. You can still love someone but not be in-love with them. You two shared time together, pictures are memories. The good outweighs the bad in almost all relationships. It's a comfort thing, and as he becomes more accepting of the break up, he will take more and more pictures down. I still have photos of my ex girlfriend and I because we shared some amazing times. But, having pictures keeps you fresh in his mind, and makes moving on much tougher.

[ageofabenius]

... Or maybe he misses her

[thina22]

No. Maybe he just forgot to take it away. When I went back to my house, I saw the picture of my ex o top of my dresser. I was planing to take it away but I'm too lazy to get up on my bed and told myself I'll do it later. It's only now that I've read your question that I remembered I forgot again to take it away.

[Asker]

He didn't forget. He had put the cards (I had given him) away and even created an album from the other pics we had taken together. He intentionally left the pics on the fridge and on his dresser.

[thina22]

I did the same.... but the ones left are the ones I forgot or didn't bother taking away, because it didn't mean anything to me anymore whenever I see it. We have this song in our country that goes like "I remember the boy, but I don't remember the feeling". Well, I'm speaking for my experience it doesn't necessarily mean that it's the same, but also don't take away the possibility that it goes the same for him. Don't give yourself false hopes. Hope for the best, but expect for the worst.

[Reeses-pieces777]

well it means it meant something to him so he kept the photos. I do'nt have any photos of my and my ex bf's, I've thrown them all away. those photos are memories

[NaniDoll]

you meant something especially if it was a long relationship. things like that aren't erased over night.

[Anonymous]

IT means he hasn't move on to another relationship and he has memories he still likes and isn't afraid of.