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What are my ex boyfriend's intentions?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost two years ago. We had a very bad breakup, we hated each other. Now fast forward two years later.he wants to hang out. He has been writing me online trying to get me to call him. He...

SouthernCaliGirl09

Xper 5 Age: 38

What does it mean when a guy takes his tongue and...?

What does it mean when a guy takes his tongue and pushes it against his cheek a few times. Like a guy I like did that to me and I saw him stare at me an push his tongue on his cheek.like I can se the cheek move back and...

pumba22

Xper 3 Age: 38

Can you trick yourself into loving someone?

Say someone loves you and you're just so miserable and tired of being alone that you start to phsyc yourself into thinking you love that person back. will you everntually fall in-love wit tem, or will it all remain on big...

krystalann

Xper 5 Age: 36

My crush likes my best friend?

i have a best friend who's always the centre of attention. I can't understand why to me we both seem to be quite good looking but in different ways. I don't understand what's the deal.guys that approach us always chat her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

It just seems he does the bare minimum.

so I have had a boyfriend for about a month and things are going well.but it seems funny because he doesn't text me like at all never talks on the phone. and it just seems he does the bare minimum. but the worst part is...

lildessie3

Xper 5 Age: 36

How can I stop being so jealous of my boyfriends best friend??

He is constantly on the phone to his best friend. His best friend always comes first in my boyfriends life and whenever his is around I seem to be pushed aside and I hate it. Am I just jealous? What should I do? My...

Sazzy-G

Xper 5 Age: 37

My girlfriend changed into a completely different person and dumped me?

I dated Caitlin for about 2 years. We were together and we were happy. When we first met she was insecure about herself because she was overweight, about 210 lbs, but I let it go because she was sweet, kind, and seemed...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

He cheated and now I'm ignoring him?

My guy cheated on me and I found out. Now, I am ignoring him and not even going to bother to let him know that I found out. Im not takng his texts, emails, or calls. I don't want to waste my time with him, he has hurt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Haven't had a girlfriend since high school?

and I turned 21 not too long ago. Did I peak in high school or something? I have hooked up with only 2 girls outside of high school too. I have some acne scars which are visible and ugly looking under direct lighting.but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she too shy to talk to me??

I met this girl and we hung out three times. One time, she was really touchy (slept on my shoulder, lap, played with my hair, tickle) but one time she was more conservative because her friend was with her. I think she...

irresistible

Xper 5 Age: 37

Family & Friends

What does it mean when your ex-boyfriend holds you, kisses you on the top of the head, and holds your hand?

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me then said he wanted to stay friends. About a month later, he was holding me and kissed me on the top of my head. He held me for longer than necessary and when we pulled away he slipped...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do accents make a person more attractive? Guys and Girls what do you think?

Well the other day I was at work and this older woman who was new just started and I had never spoken to her yet. So I asked her for some help because of what she did at the store and I noticed she had a european accent....

dfg456

Xper 6 Age: 37

Girls: Do you prefer your men Muscular or Athletic?

Girls, assuming tall and/or lanky is out of the question (I'm only 5ft 11in), are you generally more attracted to guys that are straight up athletic (ie runners) or guys that are thicker but it's all muscle (not overly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my "boyfriend" tell me I'm his best friend but not love me?

I dated the most wonderful man for about a year. We are both in our 40s, and he was never married or even in a relationship with a woman before me. He is not gay, was just very very shy. We always have a great time...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

How do I deal with my girlfriends texting bull?

Im currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We are 1200 miles apart, but we want it to work. Tonight she drunk texted me. I was like heyy ill talk to you in the morning, go have fun. She said, hey I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend got drunk should I stay with him?

My boyfriend and me went a bar together. Well he end up getting drunk off his a$$ (I don't really drink.) I went to the bathroom. I get back and he was dancing on the table. It so embarrassing having to get off the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it feel like to get kicked in the crotch?

it looks like the most painful thing ever.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why does he always smile when I talk to him or when he is talking to me?

I have been trying to talk to the guy I like more this year than I did last year. I have known him since kindergarten and we used to talk a lot but I don't know what happened. And last year he woulc talk to me more than...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I tell the difference between playing 'hard to get' and just not being interested?

Okay I know that girls like to play weird mind games with guys they're flirting with like playing hard to get. I need to know how to tell the difference between whether a girl is playing hard to get or if she's just not...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

Are tongue piercings "slutty"?

My parents have told me that they are, but I see no problem with it. I haven't encountered very many to know what other people my age think of them.

Sonatina

Xper 5 Age: 38

He asked me out but never told me when??!

Finally after a long time of me being interested in a male friend he asked me out, well technically he offered to take me and teach me bowling. Yes that's right I never really bowled before! Anyway, he just asked me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when someone won't even acknowledge you?

They give you the silent treatment, its like they have dropped off the face off the earth. They ignore your calls/text messages, your voicemails, they don't even respond, not once. They ignore you completety.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Favorite scent to smell on a girl?

Yes, I am aware that this is a copy of a question asked earlier, lol. But it didn't get a very good response and I'm extremely curious. So when it comes to perfumes/lotions/etc., which scent turns you on the most?

Becca1234

Xper 6 Age: 35

Other

Are guys impressed by the car a girl drives?

i was wondering if it's a plus for guys if girls drive really nice cars and does it show what type of girl she is?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are girls named "Ashley" usually so freakin' hot and sexy?

Through out our lives we tend to associate names with certain types of people. What is your hot name? What is your ugly name?

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Break Up & Divorce

He wants us both?

So my boyfriend of 2 months just recently revealed that he has been seeing somone else. But he said that he didn't want to break up with me that he wanted us both. So what's wrong with this picture? So I am suppose to be...

pearl1979

Explorer Age: 46

Break Up & Divorce

My long time girlfriend came clean about cheating on me a long time ago. Should I make a big deal out of it?

I've been together with my girlfriend for 3 years now. She recently came clean about having had an affair with her ex about 2 years ago that lasted for 4 months before she stopped it. How the hell am I supposed to react...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why does he act so weird around me?

Ok, my guy friend is awesome he's like my closest guy friend. But lately he's been showing all the signs that he likes me (but he doesn't tease me or touch me or anything like that but he does play with my hair). So if he...

Tatiahna

Yoda Age: 31

Other

Do you girls prefer if a guy just texts you or would you prefer a phone call instead?

well I started talkin to this girl through txt I can't really talk on the phone cause I dnt have much to say. But I feel like I'm too lame all I txt is how are you, what you doing, etc. Girls what do you like to talk...

big-D

Xper 3 Age: 41