All Questions

What should you wear for a drinks date?

What clothing is good for a drinks first date? Girls, what would you wear? Guys, what would you like to see women wearing? Both, what shouldn’t you wear.

Blonde401

Guru Age: 36

Have you ever dated someone significantly taller or shorter than you?

Probably the biggest difference I experienced. He was 6'4 and I'm 5'.

InYourHead

Xper 6 Age: 22

Other

Is it considered a personal question to ask someone what their nationality is?

In these uncertain times we are living in, would some people be offended if someone asked a person what nationality/nationalities they are?

sage2021

Master Age: 71

DO you find Old Money less materialistic and more lethargic than New Money?

Old money people, in my experience, are kind of lethargic and lazy. But they don't talk incessantly about stuff and what they are buying next.

Jaysonava

Explorer Age: 33

Is this true or false: you should go for guys over 26 if you want a committed relationship/marriage?

'You should go for guys aged over 26 years if you're looking for a real committed relationship/marriage' - advice from my mum about my failed romantic life lol. Do you think it's true?

Alyssa_11

Xper 6 Age: 28

Shopping & Gifts

What is the most wholesome gift you ever recieved?

What made that gift as wholesome? What is the story behind it?

talka20

Guru Age: 28

Who do you trust more out of these two choices?

I will say a few things about each choice. Rogan: he has a wonderful format where he spends 3 hours deeply interviewing people. He seems to have integrity for now but the pressures of his popularity could eventually...

Juxtapose

Master Age: 37

Valentine's Day

Why do some men not realize that for Valentines day, its only the thought that counts?

Why do they think gifts=buying something. Every Valentine's Day I have made handmade gifts for my past exes and stuff. All it cost me was a little bit of my time and some effort. (I'm a digital artist and can also cook.)...

CRT1022

Xper 4 Age: 28

How can a guy in his 30s who’s never had a girlfriend and is a virgin improve his chances of getting a girlfriend?

- He has done self improvement in terms of working on confidence. He has many hobbies, many friends and many interests. - he has spent time improving his online dating profile and getting better photos. - He’s been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is it harder to make friends as you get older? I've noticed as we age, it's quality over quantity as the goal and friends are made at work?

Uptowngirl88

Explorer Age: 32

Why would a guy go from staring non-stop at a woman to sort of avoiding her?

I would catch the same guy staring at me at this country club I go to. He would sometimes lock eye contact and smile. But would stare for a long time as I walked by. So then one day I was walking by after my golf lesson...

Freckles1996

Xper 1 Age: 27

Girls, what would you do if your boyfriend went into the street and ran around nude with a hard on?

bigboy133

Xper 5 Age: 44

What type of girls do not want our money? What type of girls are looking for deeper emotional connections?

How do I spot those type of girls? And where can I find them? Are they hiding in plain sight?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do I do if im veey girly and dumb?

Typical girl. Like one you see Karen on Mean Girls. Lol. I may have aspergers. But im really a sweet hearted hirl xD Like i take stuff serious and dont really do banter and joking inults or whatever that other girls...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some guys don't reciprocate a girl's feelings and start ignoring her as soon as they know that she likes him back?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do Indian parents often wish for their children to marry a white person when it comes to interracial dating?

When it comes to interracial dating, I know Indian parents tend to encourage or be very open to their children dating white people. And on flip side lose their shit and even give nasty looks at their kid bringing home a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If your crush apologised to U directly but then asked your best friend to apologise for them (crush couldn't see me in person) how would you take it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Welp, I finally reached the age of the a 27 year old virgin? Am I doing something wrong or is it wrong in general to be a virgin at this age?

Would people even believe me, when I tell them that? Is it all in my head that women care about this? I don't feel sad at all just a little confused on how I got here so far? I still haven't had sex or my first...

poneglyphs

Guru Age: 31

Other

If you could wear one color for the rest of your life, what would it be?

It would be black for me. 80% of my wardrobe already consists of black clothes anyway lol. It's my favorite color besides hot pink. #colormeblack #blackonblack #ShaTTeredQuestions

ShaTTeredMasterpeace

Influencer Age: 38

Flirting

Is my teacher interested in me?

Yesterday I (F18) told my teacher (M30s) I had something to ask him, in regard to the lesson, and he told me to wait there after class. After all my classmates went away I asked him my question, which was very quick to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can you properly shoot your shot through Dms when you don’t know each other?

big_benjamin777

Xper 2 Age: 30

Relationships

Is it bad to encourage cheating?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

What do you think about Indian clothes?

Babygirl_S

Guru Age: 29

Is this a sign she’s fake and intended to humiliate me for male attention?

Basically I was sitting outside a club these men come over to talk to me I wasn’t even trying to look cute I wanted to go and was definitely not flirting with them I had my heads in my head and my coat over me I wasn’t...

anonbrunette99

Yoda Age: 26

Should I give it a shot even if I'm not sexually attracted to him (yet)?

So I met this really great guy! He asked me for my number and I gave him because we had a great conversation, and because I am new in this city and want to develop some friendships. We think alike and have many things in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My partner says he’s unbothered by sex in general is it just with me or everyone?

Before he met me at 18 he went 6 months no sex. And only met someone new cos it came to him. Although he went out his way to meet me. It’s been 6 years and he claims he’s unbothered by sex and always has been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls - will you let your boyfriend shampoo your hair?

My boyfriend has been asking me - even begging me - to let him shampoo my hair. He knows nothing about hairdressing and I fear that he will ruin my hair. I am proud of my hair and have spent much time and money on it. Is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I have to knock before entering a room in my own home?

So I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and it's going pretty well except he gets really annoyed if I don't knock before entering his office, and we had a big fight about it. He said that it's common courtesy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

Where does a sinister person’s “bad energy” come from?

You know those people who just give off bad energy like they’re up to no good, where exactly does this energy come from? Does it come from thoughts or them doing bad things, which shows through our intuition?

lovelyautumtrees

Xper 2 Age: 26

Talked to an old crush after 6 months I think he's still into me what are your guy's opinions based off the things he said to me over the phone?

I finally got the guts to call this guy I haven't spoken to in awhile, we both really connected & had a thing for each other a few months back. Honestly, we would have dated had the timing been right but we never pursued...

secretffemale

Xper 2 Age: 27

Entertainment & Arts

Do you play any musical instruments?

Who played an instrument in high school band or maybe at Band Camp? Ever wish you could write a song that went gold? https://www.youtube.com/embed/xVUtpUdY3Uo

Daniela1982

Master Age: 38

Why does my boyfriend say?

I treat people badly when i dont, everyone likes me and doesn't say anything bad. He always says that. I dont treat bad people good, plain they dont deserve it. But why does he say that? He also seems fixed on wantibg a...

Hiuj677

Xper 1 Age: 26

Fashion & Beauty

Do you like the combo of skirts, knee high, and fishnets?

Does anyone else love this combo? I think it's cute!

Cuti3Patooti3

Xper 1 Age: 28

I find it annoying how a woman can be older then a man but the man still taller then her wtf?

Yuuibtony

Xper 7 Age: 31

Girls, What makes guys more attractive and appealing to you?

What makes guys more attractive, sexy and appealing to you over the girls? Because looks wise girls have more beauty and that's a well known fact.

aaheyzindgi

Xper 1 Age: 35

Why my baby daddy unblock me but haven’t messaged me he the one who hurt my feelings but I’m over that my due date soon?

Glowingbae

Xper 2 Age: 26

What’s your favorite aspect/trait about your race?

I’m black and mine is, we physically don’t age as fast as other races of people, meaning we look youthful for longer! Scientifically this has been proven due to the melanin in our skin. I know many people dread getting...

ithinkimright

Xper 1 Age: 24

Anyone think it's fair and balance for handsome men to use women for sex/play with their emotion?

In today's society the average woman thinks she is much hotter than she actually is and tends to treat the average guy like complete trash. This includes things like ghosting, leaving guy's on read via text, manipulating...

Realworldanalysis

Xper 2 Age: 35

Flirting

Writing a note to a crush at work?

Okay, so to make this as simple as possible There is this girl at work that I have developed a bit of a crush on. Originally, I had no interest in her, but after a while I started to notice some of her quirks and I...

UndeniablyBillie

Xper 1 Age: 22

Health & Fitness

Have you found yourself judging others for weight gain during quarantining and things?

I used to be very disciplined about my nutrition and exercise but during the last couple years I started letting my diet slip and without that my commitment to my workouts didn’t really keep me my fittest and eventually...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Technology & Internet

What is the point of those TikTok live 5 minute vs with them literally just telling the people watching to double tap the screen?

Are they getting money for it because it seems a really lame thing to do

frankg717

Xper 5 Age: 26