Girls, true or false: generally for you if a guy doesn’t pass a certain looks threshold, you won’t even consider his personality for dating?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[WonderBell99]

Well, yes. Physical attractiveness is an important criteria for me. If I don’t find him even a little bit attractive, I don’t think I can date him.

[devilish-cutie]

yes, but taste is subjective, guys i find attractive my sisters/friends usually dont and vice versa

[Asker]

Are there some guys who the vast majority of women find universally physically unattractive?

[devilish-cutie]

Of course, will all know that usually any person with symetrical feature regardless of gender is considered pretty by most. Yet still attraction may not develop woth everyone. Its like knowing the picture is pretty but you feel nothing, no desire

[devilish-cutie]

Oh sorry i read your last word as attractive. To answer your q: actually no cause rarely anypne is really ugly so it would be hard to define that. It maY only be tons of undesirable traits but even then you will find women that like those eg. i know women that would even prefer men that are short, fat, had crooked nose etc.

[Asker]

Surely guys who can’t get dates are doing something wrong or there’s something wrong with them?

[devilish-cutie]

not necessarily, maybe they do something wrong but it just is that you aren't everyone's cup of tea. I personally may get a lot of dates just cause i look good yet tons of that men are not interested in me as a person or only want me for sex. I have also been rejected by guys i liked, life is like that. Dating is fucking hard, dont beat ysf up. Im sure you can easily find fat, ugly woman to go on date with you but im sure that isn't what you want so everyone does have a criteria. I only see the mistake that men generally go after women while that is obviously not gonna work, its not numbers game that work in love, you gotta find a person you see real potential with and with who you connect with and have things and common and they seem interested in you, than you try. Otherwise is shooting in the dark and just bringing ysf down for no reason.

[Asker]

I think it is a numbers game for guys. Guys find way more girls attractive than vice Versa and still get rejected (in my case 100% of the time). It has nothing to do with how compatible you think you are.

[devilish-cutie]

and we agree to disagree. im telling you that for women it matters how compatible you are

[Asker]

That doesn’t change the fact that its a numbers game for guys. Like you said women can easily get hundreds of dates (even if they don’t lead anywhere). I can’t get 1 date.

[devilish-cutie]

you can get a date if you lower your standards

[Asker]

My pool is already wide. If I have to lower my standards even further, isn’t that basically saying that I’m at the bottom of the leagues?

[devilish-cutie]

not necessarily, it means you just are desperate to get in a relationship