Why I'm still not over my last relationship (Page 2)

[Lemia]

Maybe there are old scars that haven't had the time to heal. True love never runs smooth. For every knock there is a high.

[jcampbell115]

You're an attractive girl, you shouldn't have any problems finding that new guy you will fall head over heels for

[faithie_Artist]

Saying “Because it was your first relationship” is like questioning rather to go back to breast milk because it was your first food/drink. First doesn’t always mean it’s the best.

[whitehide]

Your past will eventually come back to bite you in the ass if you don't confront it. It sounds like you need to talk to him about it, get some closure, then you can finally move on

[smg99]

I absolutely relate to each of your points. I too experience as you do. And still do

[constant_freeflow]

Please just don’t drink and Drake ok all jokes aside you deserve better ok you need to find value in yourself first don’t worry if it takes long it will be worth ok

[Smegskull]

If you didn't make a mistake you have no reason to feel that way and need to work on rationalising your mind.
If you did make a mistake you need to resolve your personal problems and stop offloading them onto others in the hopes they will solve them for you (or pay a therapist to solve them for you, the point is you don't get it free).

[Only_Ozzie]

I’m gonna sound like an ass but you really do need to get over it. Pining over what you don’t have is unhealthy.

Your ex is not the sun, moon, and the stars. Your ex is a human with human flaws. On of many creatures inhabiting the planet.

[awkwardman]

You need to see someone because this is bad. 3 years for this is really bad. I can see 6 months if it was a long term casual thing 9 months to a year if it was long term serious at most. But honestly it sounds like half of the issue is you dont want to let go. So please go seek professional help

[Under_Maps_OF_twigs]

Some people have a hard time moving on. Maybe you are not over him because you regret that it ended.

[tallgirl03]

I feel you 💔 I’ve liked a friendship for five years but he doesn’t like me and people tell me to stay away from him but he’s literally my happiness

[saponpolen]

I've lost my love. My love has died - 2 February 2015

[jessicarosen]

Just move on. There will be plenty of other opportunities for new relationships. That is the exciting part!

[joshie12579]

I just got out of a 6 year relationship and it hurts but need to move on. I would like to chat as it seems like we have a bit in common. U seem like fun.. text me - five87 eight 91 eight6eight9

[CuriousMufuxka]

You said it all with "I'm moving out for the first time" I question whether you will actually do those other endeavors..

[madhatters4]

have you ever considered seeking closure?

[madhatters4]

it's not an instant fix but i think talking to him and explaining why you did what you did will help you move forward. i imagine a bit part is a sense of guilt that you liked him so much and effectively ghosted him

[dmmmmm01888]

I'm over mine, but if I saw him, I would either run the other way or beat his ass

[aussieguy12354]

You just need to find another man who is gonna treat you right

[Rider22]

Ok that’s pretty bad. Three years and you are still hung up on some guy. Maybe get some help.

[Anonymous]

I relate to every. Freaking. Word.