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how about: "cause it would be kind of a dick move to ditch someone during the holiday time, when family visits are planned"?
Treat women as if they are disposable, keep them for as long as they're beneficial to you.
Get gifts you won't have to return any feelings of favors for and then it's spring a good time to go out and find someone else. Sounds like a win win timing.
No more presents
Losing winter coat
Weather conditions are better choices are available
Bikini time
Short shorts and freaky outfits can be worn
Lol
well you deserved to be dumped bu women
you dont know how to treat, and handle women
your myTakes shows your frustration and disappointment with them
They're shedding pounds to get ready for bikini season and he's the dead weight.
Because cuffing season is officially over and thotting season is right around the corner
🤨 🤨
I really find it weird that you are telling people how women feel and why they do the things they do as if you actually know... Like you aren't just speculating...
Probably just wants to build himself up as a dating coach. Have to keep posting something, even if the quality is not very good. Judging by most of his posts.
Everyone has their own hussle i suppose.
I find when people personally attack me its because they know i speak the truth and are threatened by it. Then you have the simp dudes who defend the upset gal to get on her good side. Deep down... I've caught her upset because she can't lie.
Oh sweetie you wish. I just find it absolutely fucking disgusting and I have to say something ☺
Dude you might be a bit retarded if you think that everything you say is true and every other guy who disagrees with you is a simp.
You also talk a lot about low quality men and how women don't want them and etc. But looks like that is your target audience, incels and the like.
I don't care about your bs that you do, it's your business. You have brought up some decent points in some and have smoked something in few others. I'm not going to sit here and kiss your fragile ego😅.
Take care.
@Smashingdoozy Then quit reading his posts, block him and move on with your life. You're not coming across as intelligent yourself considering you resort to ad hominem tactics just because someone happens to write something that triggered your insecurities.
On top of that, you're in no position either to describe other people's experiences. Just because what he wrote does not apply to you specifically, doesn't mean it doesn't apply to other people. Especially since what he wrote is very much proven during spring break especially.
Down with women, legalize women slavery 🔥
^^^^ aren't we already there already
Hows that any different then women doing the same thing about men? Women speculate on how men think and behave all the time (and tell us all sorts of untrue and rather fucked up things). Not saying I necessarily agree with everything he stated, but its no different then women on this site telling men how they think and how they feel.
@TruthBringer you gonna say that to all the other people making fun of how stupid this post is or just me? 🤔
The fact you and other people who are clearly in denial think this is stupid pretty much proves who truly is being stupid. I find it funny how it's mainly women who disagree with this post while they themselves don't have to deal with this bullshit, but men. Keep remaining in denial, sweetheart. You've actually not proven anything.
It's as if the post is about women and all the men not disagreeing can't actually get a woman to bed 😂 oh but you won't even tell the men they're wrong for disagreeing huh? You just want to try establish your dominance over women. Stfu.
Oh love the cognitive dissonance you're trying to settle by rationalizing that anyone who disagrees with this is "must" be bad with women. What's truly amusing is that you're truly are convincing yourself of that, while in reality, you're speaking of people (like myself) who have gotten plenty of pussy.
Also, when it comes to myself, I've held plenty of men accountable for their bullshit and the bad thigns they have done towards women. So I target both parties. Further proves my point your only argument is the use of ad hominems and don't actually know what you're talking about.
What's also ironic is that you've just projected your own flaw onto me. Which is not holding women accountable by brushing this article aside as inaccurate, while in reality, the things described in this Take is something that is very true. Not to everyone, but to shit ton of people out there, yes.
It seems like logical fallacies are your thing.
This post applies to the tiniest % of women.
@Smashingdoozy You can't say that for sure. Especially not since you don't have to deal with it and thus don't even bother looking for it. Last time I checked there isn't a study that shows the percentage of women this happen to be. So I'm not sure where you got your "tiniest %" claim from. Sounds like you're once again speaking out of wishful thinking. If not, then I would love to see a source to back that up. Otherwise everyone can make random claims. Like "Only a tiny percentage of men cheat".
You also realize this dude uses someone elses photo? Catfishing people, and giving shitty dating advice just doesn't sit well with me.
You'll question my stats but not his omfg 🤦🏻♀️
@Smashingdoozy You running away from our actual discussion? Apope is irrelevant to the thing we're currently discussing. A catfish can still be correct in terms of statements (and I'm not saying he is). Let's say he is a catfish for the sake of argument. If he says 1+1=2 does that make it untrue just because he happens to be a catfish? No. Stick to the message, not the messenger. That do you well when dealing with people over the internet especially. Ad hominems don't get you anywhere
You literally questioned me for generalizing a statistic but you won't question him stating "facts".
Because I don't claim what he said is bullshit and then proceed in making other claims. I know that he is talking from a generalizing point of view. If he happened to say "most women" or "all women", then that will change the dynamic.
I didn't say it was bullshit though 🤔
People can read between the lines, miss.
Also, you've mentioned about dominance. It's ironic how you imply that being dominant over a woman is a bad thing. Well, generally speaking, women like it when men are dominant. I've always being dominant with women not to the extend that I'm becoming a dictator. It's in my personality. And it has always helped me with women. They love it. Not just with women, but the AIr Force too. Men who have experience in dating women know very well that women dislike submissive men. So I'll take it as a compliment.
Then you suck at analyzing text... If you actually read between the lines you'll see I disagree with the opinion owner, I don't think someone like hm is a reliable source for this information.
Also we aren't talking about sex. Sexual dominance is much different to a man saying a woman a wrong simply because she is a woman.
Saying a woman is wrong because she is a woman is incorrect and I don't see who even made that claim. And then you ironically talk about people having shitty reading comprehension. Go figure. The message still holds truths even if it is delivered by someone else than Apope. Again, your ad hominem doesn't work here, sweetie.
I think you can see why I would assume that is what you were doing, you were only commenting on womens posts not mens. You surely can see how that looks to a woman? They hypocrisy we see?
I also basically said exactly what I meant there wasn't really a need for reading between lines. But if you're going to do this go figure thing please feel free to block me and move on with your life 🤷🏻♀️
@Smashingdoozy Oh how funny that you've assumed my motives just because you happened to see me mainly comment to women on this post. I find that because it's mainly women disagreeing here. Another attempt of manipulation to discredit the person rather than a statement. Logical fallacies really are your thing lol
But women aren't the only ones disagreeing plenty of men have... Why only comment on the women posts?
Has more to do with not wanting to skim through a bunch of comments and just stick to what the ladies have said since they are much fewer. So in other words, the mood in the moment.
Okay fair enough but you can see where im coming from right? I see your comments on all the women posts and 1 on a mans post... It comes across kinda shitty.
I understand it can come across as shady. But not everything is as it seems. Hence why it's best to stick to the statement rather than the person in most cases. And if you look again, I've commented to some of them since you got me curious
Well thanks for kinda seeing my perspective 🤷🏻♀️
So true. I need to follow you, sir. Every boy needs a fahter like you.
Better to rename this “why your fling stops during different times of the year”
Sounds like a fling not a relationship.
A relationship can be several months
You can't just write mytakes about women like you know what you're talking about when you obviously don't
Women commenting here are not denying what is written. Just attacking me because they feel threatened that i know their game. Its often not intentional. Its subconscious. Any guy knows never get dating advice from women. Women dont even understand themselves. 🤣
Who hurt you?
^^^^ listen here amateur it's not who hurt him it's how many doesn't matter at this point obviously the damage has been done and you people need to take ownership for that.
@yofuknutz "Remember men, women don't care about your feelings. You are expendible. She has dozens of "guy friends" who are lined up as her next partner." who tf says stuff like that and acts like that's how it usually is?
Yeah even female relatives in my family very dismissive my feelings but they mad at me when I dismiss their feelings
@yofuknutz Blame it on the people not the gender
@Apope16 Damn bro spitting facts once again, you've obliterated her with your last reply. And the fact she started using "Who hurt you?" proves it 😂
@TruthBringer Nah... I am actually wondering..
@ivegotnonameme Sure sweetheart, we all know that anyone who asks that question is trying to be condescending and have a weak attempt to invalidate one's arguments through the means of implying the argument is made out of an emotional state. Funny enough, this is always used by people who can't come up with an intellectual comeback (aka no debating skills). Sorry boo, but you're not going to insult our intelligence.
@TruthBringer I'm missing the part where you came up with with any valid argument. The only "intellectual comeback" I can use is that you are a man and I am woman, and I know how we act, not you.
@ivegotnoname You've already got contradicted. So why should I even bother with trying to refute anything you've said. You've not even come up with anything valid other than a temper tantrum and ad hominems. Sweetheart, female actions speak louder than their words. You can scream out to the world that we men don't know you, but we can see what you're doing. And Apope wouldn't be writing this if it weren't for so many women out there. The difference between you and me is that I see things for how they are and recognize certain red flags within certain people. You on the other hand just hate the fact someone speaks out of experience and realism. Sounds more like you a you-problem than someone else's problem. If you would actually be open-minded and listen, read and see (aka do some research), then you would find out that Apope is not so far from the truth with his take. I know it's too much for you, so just stick to your wishful thinking ;)
@TruthBringer Blablabla I'm guessing you've never had a real girlfriend?
@ivegotnoname I actually did have girlfriends. 2 in fact. And I currently have a girlfriend. But thanks for proving my point sweetheart <3 Clearly unintelligent to come up with an argument without the use of pathetic logical fallacies (I'll let you Google what that means).
Well then I really do not understand where you got this from
What would your girlfriend say about you writing on social media that women don't care at all about men's feelings?
@ivegotnoname
Where I got "this"? Experience and research. It's not so hard to find information in books and on the internet.
In many cases, women DON'T care about a man's feelings. She cares about her own. "Behind every hurt woman there is a mountain of broken hearts of men".
Men in general have to deal with a lot more rejections than women do. And society pampers to the woman who got her feelings hurt while neglecting the emotional needs of men (one of the reasons why male suicide is much higher than female suicide). There are plenty of experiments on YouTube alone where women are put in the shoes of men in terms of dating and they admit to find it brutal. Just because I happen to be succesful in getting women in bed or into relationships, doesn't mean Im oblivious to the reality. So while you're lecturing others on not telling how women think or act, don't lecture men on how they experience women.
@TruthBringer Well it isn't a woman's burden solely to take care of a man's feelings just like it isn't the other way around. The fact that more men get rejected isn't truly the fault of the women, just the social stigma. From what you've said and what you've argued with, you clearly don't want men and women to be alike, so why are complaining about the fact that we aren't.
@ivegotnoname I'm simply recognizing the different dynamics between men and women, Whether me wanting men and women to be alike or not is not relevant to that which we are discussing here. Which also raises the question to what you exactly mean with me "not wanting men and women to be alike". Because something tells me you're making stuff up again. In the end, I can't change how society is and how people are. I simply act accordingly. And that starts with accepting reality for what it is rather than what I want it to be. This is one of the things that helped me tremendously in my dating life. Similar to the 'survival of the fittest' idea.
@TruthBringer So what you're saying is that you haven't been talking down women and talking up men in this entire conversation?
I'm talking down women who show signs of these behaviors mentioned in the take. And the take itself is about WOMEN. If the take was about men, then I would keep it at MEN. Sorry love, but your attempt in manipulating the conversation into trying to make me look bigotted towards women isn't working.
@TruthBringer As long as you do not actually think all women are like this I don't disagree. But as soon as you generalize, it's problematic. You saying that I am trying to manipulate the conversation is not a good argument from your side.
Of course not all women are like this... My family and my girlfriend are living proof of that...
@TruthBringer Well then why are you arguing with me? What fired me up was Apope saying stuff like "Just attacking me because they feel threatened that i know their game." and "Women dont even understand themselves.".
You realize this doesn't apply to ALL women right... Read between the lines
@TruthBringer "Most female actions are subconscious and then other excuses are used to justify behavior." you can't say this isn't generalization. There's no reading between the lines in that.
of course some women are like this, hell, some men are like this, but it certainly isn't most
WIthin the aspects of the dating world, he is actually right about that. Manopulation often does happen unconsciously and women aren't even aware of it themselves. It's a tricky game for both genders
@TruthBringer Oh so now it's "almost every woman" again? Stick to one point.
"within the aspects of the dating world". Quit twisting people's words missy.
So men do not manipulate at all and women do all the time right? Is that what you really think? I think it's pretty lined up.
I'm not. Most women become a part of the dating world at some point...
My god the ignorance in this conversation
The topic here is women, not men. No one claimed men can't be manipulative. As a man myself, I've seen plenty of manipulation tactics coming from men just to get a girl in bed. If the topic was about men, then I'd gladly talk about men. The topic is about WOMEN. Two wrongs don't make a right. If I lecture someone about stealing a soda from a store and he points to another person stealing a bag of crisps, that doesn't change the fact that stealing soda is bad and neither does it change the fact that stealing a bag of crisps is bad aswel. Plenty of sources and social experiments out there that validate what I'm saying about how debilitating dating can be for a man. Especially when it comes to online dating. Just because you don't see, or perhaps refuse to see there are manipulative women in the dating world doesn't change the fact that plenty of them are. To a point even that men are taking a step away from dating and marriage. Hence why marriage rates are at an all-time low now.
@TruthBringer If both women and men are manipulative. Why is this not just about both women and men then? You see where your "two wrongs don't make a right" thing makes no sense here?
Again sticking to my initial comment. If you don't remember it. If a "relationship" is so fickle that the woman breaks up with the man to have a "wild summer" it was never a relationship to begin with.
True, if she leaves because she happens to want to whore around, then that was never a relationship, to begin with. I don't have to worry about my girl breaking up with me because she wants to go and whore around during summer. And if she did, then she is free to go and be single. Other than that, the topic is about women because the author is a man who dates women and thus shares his experience and knowledge about WOMEN. Hence why he kept it at women. No rocket science here. It doesn't make sense to turn the table and talk about men all of a sudden. You'd only take away the severity of the other side's actions. It's asif a woman speaks of being a rape victim and someone says "well men can be rape victims too! I know a man who got raped bla bla bla". Does it make the woman's words any less true or severe? No, but that's what it's made out to be. Two wrongs don't make a right. Stop being a child giving a temper tantrum with your "b-Bb b b ut men do this and that!". Don't like the Take, then just leave.
@TruthBringer I love how you think insulting me personally will somehow make my comments less valid. If you agree with the first point I'm curious to know why you commented at all.
But I see we are not going to come to an understanding here since you dismiss everything I say. I'm done with this discussion, good day.
You shared a really interesting information thanks for
That's why I gave up on women a long time ago. Hardly any good women exists these days.
Simple, it’s the money. She always look for rich man.
When your magic wand loses its magic, she want something better
good take, you are 100% right
You surely know to write nonesense.
Funny coming from a guy who has no counter-arguments to refute this "nonesense"
@TruthBringer Life is to precious. I ain't wasting my time, giving long explenations.
So you took your time to read a take you don't agree with but don't bother give your own view. Well then... I suggest you actually do follow your words and not waste your time here on G@G at all
@TruthBringer Lol, I gave a short answer I would explain better, but just to be more clear: I ain't giving a long explanations to this specific post.
@diegoo You're free not to invest, but at the same time don't expect anyone to take you seriously when you call someone's writing "nonesense" and then withdraw from giving valid arguments. The only people willing to take it are the snowflakes who also disagree with this take. Have a good one.
They can do whatever they want, like how us guys can do whatever we want.
hahahaha shut up GOD is above the dome
these women are trash
that simple
If you treat a woman nicely, she will stay nice
I generally agree with that sentiment, except I've personally had women who ditch me to go have fun with the bad boys then beg to come back when they are ready to settle down.
There is always different experiences and never one way or the other.
@Anonymous
I've had several girlfriends who I was very nice, kind, and generous. Both began to take advantage of the situation. It seems to me if one is too nice the other will take advantage of you.
@Dragonpurple you’re picking from the pool of wrong women. Women don’t stray when all their needs and desires are being met by the person they’re currently with. The ones you’ve experienced most likely care about one particular “desired need”, which is probably why you chose them in the first place
maybe you could just ask.. just saying
Who is you? This is a general observation on behalf of all guys. It is what I see anecdotally in society.