So. I don't really know what to say, I don't even know what to feel. I met a girl last year that came from a broken home, her dad left when she was a baby, her step-dad is abusive, her mom cheats on her step-dad and she was bullied when she was youngr, I fell in love with her and decided to "fix" her, I spent a year dating her, giving her all my time, love and help. A few months ago she broke up with me because I was being too "clingy".... She said that to me, yet she'd get sad anytime we didn't talk, she'd make up big lies about her getting hurt or some shit everytime I'd leave her for anymore then 10 minutes.... And I was the clingy one.... It gets better too... After we broke up she told all her friends that "He hacked into my email and my phone. He made me feel bad about myself for sex. He used me." She made me a monster... I did none of those, just gave her love... Now she's with someone else who "loves her and will fix her." I'm two months she's replaced me... And here I am, as broken as her.... The lessen I learned, is that you can not fix a broken person, no matter how hard you try. They can only fix themselves. It's a hard thing to realize that sometimes the people you love are too messed up to be helped.