I am 50 he is 54. I live in my own home and he lives in an apartment. Everything in the relationship has been great but he likes to go to the casino every week. I don't know how much he spends. He told me that he wants me to move in but I told him I don't want to move in with a ring. He works as a machinist for a bedding company and doesn't make much money and he has a part time job 2 nights a week. Tonight, I walked out on him because he wanted to stay at the casino. I told him that I was leaving and I got in my car. So, how long should I wait for him to call? He has been married before and divorced with 2 children and I think he is scarred from that. I have been married and divorced too with 3 kids. I don't know why I stayed in the relationship as long as I have. My house is falling apart and I was going to move in with him without a ring at the end of the summer so I could get rid of my house and save money and if there is no engagement in a few years then leave. I have a good job and can support myself. So, how long do I wait for him to call? Or should I call him?
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Read again what you've written. You're already questioning what you're even doing with him. And moving in together because your house is falling apart is totally the wrong reason. Life's too short at our age for being in the wrong relationship. Find somebody more suitable. I'm sure you're still hot property, so it shouldn't be too difficult.0