Me and my husband were arguing it turned physical I slapped him in the face first and he came back with an even harder slap. It stunned me, the first time he's ever slapped me in a fight no matter how angry he gets. I don't know what to do. Why now when I'm so close to having our 3rd child. We'll be married one year next month
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Most Helpful Guy
Hah. You slapped him first.
You have absolutely no right to even attempt to justify your actions.
Maybe if you don't want to be slapped, don't slap other people?
Most Helpful Girl
I know people are saying you slapped him first he has the right to slap you back blabla, I don't think that's true.
Okay, you shouldn't have slapped him, I don't think anyone should slap anyone in any relationship. But it's unfortunately true that men are physically stronger than women, which makes him slapping you back kind of unfair.
And also "you slapped me first" is a bit childish as a reason to slap you back. He should have turned away and left or something.
But in any case, I think that men who are capable of laying hands of their wife even once and get away with it have a high chance of doing it again.
Don't slap him again, but if this repeats itself, RUN.2
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